My husband is paranoid and never believes me why is that?

[Anonymous]

He is getting on my nerves. He is super paranoid, he doubts me, he watches me, and he is always accusing me of things I never did. It’s frustrating and annoying, it makes me feel like he doesn’t trust me. A guy at work was basically harassing me, knowing my husband i never told him anything. He ended up finding out and he basically accused me of cheating and would not believe that the man was making me uncomfortable until the man got terminated from work after ANOTHER woman complaint. Had that not happened my husband was convinced i was cheating. I don’t understand why he doesn’t believe me, although I believe everything he says and try to be there for him.

[Anonymous]

He doesn't trust you. The fact that he found out from anything other than you telling him right away only made him trust you less.

Some guys (myself included) have high standards when it comes to loyalty in relationships.
I won't mention or talk to a single girl other than my girlfriend, unless said girl is family or the conversation is about work.
But women think it's cool to be friends with other dudes and sometimes put their man on the back burner, as long as she's not having sex with them.

I'm not accusing you of anything, but chances are you've showed him more than a few signs throughout the years that he's not the only man you think about.
Distrust is VERY rarely unfounded

[MementoMori777]

tell him he is angry at the wromg person, sounds like an annoying person to be around no lie

[Anonymous]

he has a mental illness... please keep yourself safe...

[slatyb]

Why is not important. This is intolerable. End this.