He still have photos with his ex?

[Anonymous]

We JUST started dating. We're not exclusive. I saw he has a framed photo with his ex (she's married now) in his bedroom.

Is it OK or not? Should I be concern?

[kylee2437]

Ehhh that’s a bit odd that he’s comfortable enough with that photo still being in his room present when he wants to date again. Red flag

[Asker]

She's married now and she has a baby?

[kylee2437]

Even then, I don’t know. I’d ask him because it’s either 1. He forgot about it? Or 2. He’s still holding on

[Asker]

It's a vacation selfie with her on a mountain. he said she's hardworking etc but I'm not sure it is normal she was just part of his life or should I be concerned

[kylee2437]

Honestly, I’d take that as a massive red flag. Many guys that hold onto their ex like that, are more than likely trying to use women as a rebound to his heart break.

[Asker]

What if they broke up in 2019 ?

[kylee2437]

Girl , if you don’t think it’s a red flag, then it’s okay lol

[Asker]

Girlll it is a red flag I got jealous for sure but they broke up at 2019 so I don't know he might remember her with respect? It's bad I can't read his mind 😭😭

[kylee2437]

My ex created issues with me over a girl he dated back 5 years ago at the time lol if they aren’t healed and ready to move on, it’s going to be an issue. So I guess asking him questions that would direct you to if he has moved on or not

[Anonymous]

You just said you're not exclusive and the relationship is brand new. And you already want him to erase his past for you?
And you think men are the assholes...

[Opinion Owner]

He probably still loves her and he's not over her.
You're just a filler chick for the gaping hole in his heart. It's not weird. You are

[Asker]

How am I weird? Lol

[Asker]

If you think he still loved her how am I weird?

[JustinTheGreat]

Yeah that’s weird

[Anonymous]

No its not okay. Ask him why its still there.

[Asker]

He'll probably say "That's part of my life" bullshit like every men do

[Opinion Owner]

There are better men out there. You dont have to deal with him.

[Opinion Owner]

But, if you do like him, tell him you dont think its okay, and see if he does something about it.