Girlfriend distancing her self?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I been dating for a little over a month recently went on a vacation together with my family been spending a lot of time together every day. Until recently two days went by we haven’t seen each other and I expressed that I missed her and wanted to see her. I kept saying I miss her and and when I asked to see her she started acting so busy and that she wants to spend time with her family. She broke up with me because she said I’m not getting the fact she has to spend time with her family. Finally I said okay I’ll give u space she said you’re full of shit and said u don’t understand. Later that day I met up with her so she can return a few items I left at her house and she called me after asking why I had to leave items behind now she wants to see me on my off day. We made plans for 7pm the next day and she flaked and stopped answering her phone when it was time to go out. She said she would call me after work and I blew her phone up with no answer. She texted me later that night and called me the next day I didn’t answer I was upset. Is she hiding something? Should I pursue this anymore? She seemed like the perfect person we had matching personalities.

[devilish-cutie]

im sorry this is happening to you and this behavior is not ok. Some people deal with problems by distancing and that is not ok, I mean ignorning and not communicating is not ok and very immature. Another thing is to ask for space with good communication. I think if you need closure it is ok to ask her why exactly she left you, you can say you need to know so you can properly move on, if anything you deserve to know. people expect you to read their minds but that is not possible and they should communicate what is the problem. If she refuses to do anything in order to properly talk to you, just know that if you continued on with this relationship she would always act like that, cause that is how she is and probably how she handles conflict. So in a way you are better off without her cause she could never make you happy.

[BasedBaeBecca]

It sounds like she may be going through something that's causing her to act distant and avoid spending time together. It's possible that something happened during the vacation that changed the dynamic of your relationship. However, it's also possible that she might have some personal things going on that are making it difficult for her to be in a relationship right now. Her behavior is not appropriate or fair to you. It doesn't sound like she's willing to communicate honestly with you, and you don't deserve to be treated that way. It may be best to move on and find someone who's ready to be in an open and honest relationship.

[Anonymous]

leave her be...

[imjustherechilling]

She dicked down