I think that it is pretty natural for her first instinct to be wanting to step back. Time can really change people, and you already said that both of you aren't the same people as you were that first summer you met. That doesn't mean to say that she doesn't think highly of you, just that she needs time to get to know this new person. In my opinion, there should be no rush to get into a relationship. If you honestly care about her that much, then you'll wait. What worries me about this situation though is the fact that she says you guys should "hang out". I can't help but think that maybe when she says this she might be suggesting that she has different intentions than you. Like perhaps that she doesn't like you in that way anymore and that she just wants to be friends, or that she's only physically attracted to you and only wants to hook up and have nothing more meaningful. I think the key here is communication. You need to talk to her and ask her what her intentions are and where she sees/ wants your guys relationship to go. Its also really important that you let her know what you want out of all of this as well.
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