Should I break up with her now or when she gets back from her vacation?

[Anonymous]

We have a good relationship and I care about her very much but we don’t want the same things for our futures and we argue fairly often. We’ve been together just under a year and I feel I need to end things but I’ve felt too guilty to do it because she’s very loving and kind… now she’s leaving to see family for 2 months and I’m not sure if I should end our relationship before or after her trip. I don’t want to ruin the trip for her by breaking up now but I feel like waiting so long is stressing me out a lot so I don’t know what to do.

[kylee2437]

I definitely wouldn’t wait to do this. You aren’t going to “ruin her trip” if anything that trip will take her away from the grief of the relationship ending.

[KrakenAttackin]

"To see her family for two months"... bruh, she's getting railed by old boyfriend's back home. Pull the pin now and move on.