My girlfriend said if I don’t go on holiday with her, she break up with me?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend likes to go on lots of holidays, I’m not into holidays but I’ve said I’ll go on some. She has family who love going away and friends also. I’ve got my own hobbies which obviously I enjoy doing.

but she said if I don’t go on holiday together she break up with me? Is she in the wrong or right?

[Guy13]

You better go to every Family holiday available. It is nice that you are even invited. If you do not go then you shame her. I would break-up with your arse too but I would not give you the chances she has.

[Asker]

Thanks 🙏🏻

[Asker]

You sound lonely 😂

[Guy13]

Nope, not really just dating a Betty Boop look and act alike. Her Mother and Auntie were just in Town for 6 weeks. I am speaking from experience. She loves me now and super hot 97 lbs, small waist, all ass and boobs, and all feminine... no feminist !

[Asker]

Well good for you sounds like you been fishing and caught the catch of the day

[SnowedIn]

The issue isn't who's wrong/right. The issue is that she's giving you an ultimatum. Meaning, that the relationship is already dead.

Call her bluff and break up with her. End it. Again, it has nothing to do with the holiday but everything to do with how she chose to respond.

[Asker]

So it’s not looking good?

[SnowedIn]

Not one bit. Anyone who gives you an ultimatum isn't someone to be in a relationship with. That means there are no communication skills, no willingness to compromise, not self awareness, no sense of grace, no selflessness.

End it.

[SphynxUK]

She’s cannot dictate what you should or shouldn’t do.
If you attend sometimes, that’s a compromise and she should be pleased about that!

[Asker]

I do go on holiday with her, but she like to go away like 6 times a year, I can’t afford it plus she gets paid more than me plus there’s always drama arguing with her family and I can’t be bothered with it all.

[SphynxUK]

As I said above, you go sometimes, so that should be enough to satisfy her.

[La_isla_bonita23]

She's taken a terrible path to convince you, and I think she's wrong.

[Asker]

Okay thank you for your opinion

[La_isla_bonita23]

Welcome.

[ThomasDavid1989]

I wouldn't stay with someone who is giving me an ultimatum

[Asker]

Okay thank you for your opinion