Girlfriend booked days off 3 weeks in advance for her cousins from UK. She didn't book off my birthday. It's eating me away? Is that enough 2 breakup?

[gamblevii]

[AviatorTom]

You sound like you're looking for an excuse to breakup. You can use this but it's lame... very lame.

[gamblevii]

That your partner on your first birthday together after being through some crazy shit together.

Wouldn't even bother to take time off but will for various other reasons.

Her cousins will be here a month she took 5 days off. She took days of for bunch of other shit too. You think a special once in a year occasion would be something.

But sure. Then ditching me for 2 days. And just putting in zero care or effort.

Would you want to be with a women that did nothing for your

[humanearth]

Let it go, cousin is family

Your just the boyfriend, your not blood family

Besides she was most likely saving up vacation time so she can spend time with them

If this bothers you, then your in for a rude awaking

[gamblevii]

She can book off as much time as she wants. They have no plans. They just showing up. She took off 5 days. she also ditched me on the weekend of my bday.

She's dumprd

[humanearth]

Your selfish

[gamblevii]

I would say they were selfish.

Thinking of everyone but me.

Being ditched on your birthday weekend while they had nothing big to do.

Hanging out with your aunt on a Saturday night vs taking your boyfriend out for his bday.

Yeah sorry maybe you wanna be number 2. But not me.

[LazerBean]

Yes, I thinks that's enough reason for her to break up with you.

[Nikki1989]

Really?

Are you really this sensitive and petty?

[gamblevii]

So your partner doesn't book off your bday but will book off everything else for everyone. Even if they don't have plans. Has no idea if the cousins plan on. . Then ditches you the Saturday weekend of your bday. The. Ditches you Sunday. Takes you out on a Monday.

You'd feel special and appreciated?

Yeah ok..

[Lliam]

Does your girlfriend realize that you are a child?

[LiamJHayden]

That sounds selfish to me. I mean you, not her. You are there all the time. When will she see her cousin again?

[gamblevii]

How is that relevant. She books time off for everything. She didn't bother to book time off for my birthday. I don't even care about my birthday but for some reason this irks me wrong.

[KrakenAttackin]

It's a huge thing to tuck in your memory. Is this a part of a larger pattern?

[DextroShade]

I would confront her about it.

[2willi]

sound insecure to me