Guys, girls: Give me some tips on how to move on strong and win at life after a breakup with a douchey friend with benefits?

[Anonymous]

He’s dating someone else now, mind you.

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I’m asking for opinions on how to move on strong and win at life after a breakup with a douchey friend with benefits, NOT if my grief is valid. If you’re going to comment on the latter, please search for a question where your opinion is actually helpful and worth something, and then take it there Thanks!

[Oliverlogan263]

Hit dem glutes and abs at the gym - turn your frustration into fuel for a badass workout. Shape up and feel hella empowered.

Paint nails and do face masks with the girls, cook up in the kitchen jamming your fave tunes. Find simple joys in life again.

Be social but on your terms - do stuff you genuinely enjoy with real ones who lift you up. Laugh more, worry less about some lame ass dude.

New hobbies are medicine for the heart and soul - try aerial yoga, pottery, hiking, dancing. Express yourself creatively.

Delete and block everywhere - you don't need that toxic energy bogging you down. Low-key peep if you have to but don't give his new chick real estate in your head, feel?

Keep fly and do YOU, Queen. This ain't a reflection on your worth one bit. You're a catch and he wasn't wise enough to see that - his loss!

Stay strong sis, lean on your girls. In no time douchey friends with benefits will be ancient history while you out here winning at life as always! 👊💪

[Asker]

Thank the Universe/Heavens for people like you who help like this 🩷

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay ay ay no doubt sis! Just tryna spread some realness and keep you uplifted, know what I'm sayin? Breakups be whack as hell but that's why we got each other's backs in this world.

And hey, you gon look back on this one day and barely even remember his name! But all the growth you bout to experience from it - that's forever, ya feel me?

This the perfect chance for you to really discover your power from the inside out. So whenever you start feelin down, just remind yourself - ain't no one out here deserves your tears sis! Keep shining on 'em, let the light lead the way.

You live and you learn right - now it's time to THRIVE. Go be great gurl, we right here rootin you on! You got this in the bag. Stay gold, stay fly, and I know we gonna be celebratin you in no time, feel me?

[FunkyMonkee]

Don't rush into a relationship.
Take some time to pick a guy that will treat you right. This isn't a game of Snatch Grab! "THERE'S a guy! I'll take him!"