How to show him I can change?

[bluedragonval]

He dumped me bc i was jealous and insecure. I was asking a lot of questions like 'Who are you texting' 'Why did you come home so late today' I didn't forbid him to do anything but he said i smothered him with my behaviour. He dumped me through text and i can't live anymore. I want him back but he said he only wants his peace of mind and to never contact him alone. I must mention that our relationship of 1 year Was a real rollercoaster. He has broken up with me several times, i begged to take me back. But this time is different. How to fix that? My behaviour has totally drove him mad

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Guys i wanna add something. He wasn't the perfect boyfriend as it might seem. For example, the first time he broke up with me was when i was in the ER for endometriosis. He texted other female friends good morning texts. During our fight, he stormed out of car while i was driving with him and his dad

[caring__1]

Everyone is capable of change, yet few people actually maintain the change long-term, unless the change is self-motivated. Any change we make for another tends to be temporary and/or conditional. This isn't an issue of determining who was right and who was wrong. It's about compatibility, and the two of you don't show signs of compatibility.

Even if he was open to seeing change you make, he can't erase what preceded it. Blind trust can never be brought back. Be aware of where your choices might take you before you make the choice, rather than be impulsive and then feel obligated to change after the fact.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You can't. There's nothing more important to a man than peace in his life, and since you're saying you pretty much did the opposite of that, he's literally going to see every other woman as potentially a better mate. They haven't actively brought drama into his life. They may, sure, and many likely will, but it's a crapshoot with them it's an assured thing with you. Best to just take those lessons to heart and move on to a fresh start with someone else.

[HateyouxD]

Fix yourself before getting into another relationship. I'm sorry

[HateyouxD]

Female friends? You can't be so insecure he can have female friends right?

[boobliker]

sorry, I think you have lost a good man there. I don't think there is a way back from being jealous my SO is still jealous if I do things on my own. that 40 plus years

[Iron_Man]

Talk to him and prove yourself

[bluedragonval]

You think that is possible? He told me he doesn't love me anymore. Was he lying by your opinion? I really love him and want to do anything to try again

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know if he’s lying, but you can give it one last shot

[bluedragonval]

I am somewhat scared of him because he has some anger issues. Wish me luck, the problem is also that i think i am pregnant

[Iron_Man]

Oh wow you better find out if you’re pregnant or not