How should I level up now that I got dumped?

[Anonymous]

I want to make him jealous asf. What are some ways I can level tf up and make him wish he hadn't dumped me?

[Anonymous]

Lol grow up. You’re almost 30. Maybe that’s why he dumped you because of this attitude you have. You’re only making yourself look bad by letting him know he got to you. He won if you’re looking at this like a game.

[Asker]

im 23

[Asker]

he was 33 lol

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t matter you’re an adult. Leave the kids’s games behind. Move on. Again you’re just letting him know how much he got to you by trying to get back at him. If I was him I’d think you’re pathetic. Almost guaranteed if he called you up you’d jump in a heartbeat to see him.

[pianogirlmeow]

Completely avoid this guy and ignore him. you’re only fueling his ego trying to better yourself just because you want him to feel like he made the wrong choice. Ik hope you feel but it’s honestly better to move on with your life. If he sees how unbothered you are and that you can go on your life without him, that will make him second think. Guys long for the girls that got away not the ones that keep coming back. Find hobbies, new interests anything to keep yourself busy and not focusing on him.


All the best!

[HateyouxD]

What for? Now what if he comes running back to you then what

[Asker]

im not taking him back just petty hehe :)

[Asker]

he let me go when I needed him the most and I'll never forget that

[HateyouxD]

A hit dog will hollar

[HateyouxD]

Just replace him

[Asker]

I keep doing that tho. this is my 6th relationship this year. I'm exhausted. I need to stop focus on me and level tf up. Im choosing the wrong guys bc Im sad.

[Asker]

I need to level up and find better quality men tbh

[HateyouxD]

Yes just focus on you

[Asker]

I need to level up tho thats what this q is about. You got any ideas? Im thinking build my ASS. I also have abs rn.

[Asker]

but what else

[HateyouxD]

Focus on your self respect and esteem

[Asker]

ur right I have no self respect. But esteem is high. Like im sexy and I know it. I was hella out of this mans league :( but he said "I have depression" and he's not ready for this to make me feel bad for him (not be mad) and that its nothing to do with me. I know he's looking at other girls and used that excuse so if he can't find anything better he can come back when he's "ready." Right? That's just an excuse. Day later his following on insta went up like wtf and then he didn't block me on insta he blocked me on mf SPOTIFY like plsss.

[HateyouxD]

He just doesn't want you

[Asker]

yeah I agree but why blame it on depression? annoying asf like people actually have probs like that. I know im hot. I think I was just too needy and he prob got annoyed. but I lit told him day 1 that I am needy. and he said I want you to need me. ugh I hate men. I hate myself for needing someone. Now I need to be sexy asf and get a sexier guy. (not now, imma work to be sexier and give it 2 months before going back)

[HateyouxD]

Why would you go back to someone who doesn't like you?

[Asker]

im not. I'm going to get a sexier guy and make him feel bad bc im petty :)

[HateyouxD]

Okay I guess but you're wasting your time just move. But good luck

[Asker]

how do people move on? Bc I broke up with my man of 7 years and freaked out. Haven't been alone before. Went into one toxic relationship. got out and found another and another etc. I'm trying to learn how to be alone. How do people just move on without the idea of "get over someone by getting under someone else?" Bc im just getting my heart broken again and again. This is not worth it. I rlly do need to "figure myself out." keep finding low value trashy men bc im desperate. But how do u just livee and do u alone?

[HateyouxD]

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over looking for a different result

[RedOlives]

Just move on and let it go inside yourself.. that is should matters most to you..
And if he finds out you actually did this he will go crazy.. at this time it should matter nothing to you any bit what he feels or thinks.. Heal!❤️‍🩹

[Asker]

oof I don't know how to heal. thats my prob. just got out of a thing with another guy and another guy and another guy. I go relationship to relationship back and forth to get over the pain. it works. this time im finally focusing on me.

[Asker]

but I want to just level up. Get a guy 10593250 times better than him. He treated me so well when we were in love :(.

[RedOlives]

Focus on yourself dear and the law of attraction will do the rest and you will definitely get a better guy.. no pressure, just learn from old mistakes.. change the way you think and act every time in similar situations.. like you try to find out another way to play the game in order to level up higher grade

[RedOlives]

And have a little break , do not get into a relationship right after

[Asker]

ur right I low-key want to message him and ask him where I went wrong just bc I rlly do want to improve and be the best version of myself for the next deserving guy. But I should not message him I know.

[RedOlives]

Believe me.. you’re the one who have the answer you’re looking for.. if you do, this conversation will get you degraded instead of leveling up.. it just takes time to relate.. best of luck dear 🤞

[Asker]

ur right just have to pick apart where I think I could improve I guess :(

[Sparkie460]

If you want to " level up" , just move on with your life. Take the high road and don't play games.

[Anonymous]

This is seriously so dumb and stupid. If he dumped you, he likely won't give a fuck who you move on to.

[Anonymous]

Date a better looking guy or a richer guy

[Asker]

ooo ur right good one need to find them tho damn

[Asker]

I could get back together with my ex he was rich asf.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah that would work

[Anonymous]

how exactly will that change anything?

[Asker]

it will make him feel like im the one that got away bc he was dumb. not just the girl who was vulnerable poured her heart into him and got dumped.

[Opinion Owner]

i think it may backfire and make you look a bit desperate. i'm just saying, not trying to be rude. i've seen my friends do this tons of times and it wasn't really a good look and it didn't do anything because the guy already moved on

[Asker]

damn ok

[Asker]

I've looked so desperate with other guys god im so gross lol. I was way out of their league too. boosted their hella ego.

[Opinion Owner]

you'll be okay. just be independent and confident on your own. the best revenge is no revenge at all

[Anonymous]

Don't do that. It is very childish.

[Asker]

I mean self improvement. what's wrong with self improvement

[Asker]

each guy that dumps me I always get hotter and hotter. I learn something new about what he found attractive in me and what he finds sexy. I use it on the next guy. but what can I do for self improvement. Im trynna think. I want an ASS. I have abs but I think its time for an asss since he was an ass guy