How to get over being dumped?

A little over a month ago I got my first boyfriend, on Monday he texts me this (see picture). All I've done is cry all week. What can I do to get over him faster?How to get over being dumped??

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  • Definitely don't jump into a relationship.. at this point just have fun with your friends to get your mind off of that. Their support would help immensely.
    Good luck!

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Well I'm sorry that you had to go through this but obviously he's an asshole who doesn't deserve you so why not do small things that'll get your mind off of him like joining a certain team or club that intrests you or try and make music or start photography I hope it helps

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What Girls Said 11

  • Start dating another guy , love him and you'll automatically forget your ex boyfriend. And to make ur ex boyfriend jealous, post on Snapchat or insta or Whatsapp or whatever in the story about you two's intimate or love expressing picture.

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    • 1 I dont want to rebound and get hurt again, 2, we were long distance and he blocked all communication with me, 3 even if i could send him stuff, i doubt i could make him jealous b/c he has a girlfriend

    • Even I would choose a real boyfriend instead of an online long distance relationship. Anyone would do it

  • Dude. It was a month. You didn't love him. Move on.

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    • I definitely was head over heels for him. Most people treat me like garbage and he was really sweet to me, he's handsome, and well endowed. I was totally in love with him.

    • Nah, I know it probably felt like it, but you didn't.

  • That was brutal. Sounds familiar. Hopefully him saying stuff like this helps you realise what a massive waste of your energy they were.

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    • "I just find it weird that my ex is talking to my hopefully long term girlfriend" ~10 days post breakup.

  • remember that everyone goes through heartbreaks. yet they are still here. it’s not going to kill you, it may take weeks months or even years to fully get over. but one day you will

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  • Wow. I'm feeling your pain right now. Sorry you had to go through this. I don't really give the best advice but I suggest you focus on things that makes you happy. Hang out with your friends or family. Go shopping or camping. Surround yourself with positive people.

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  • That’s what best friends are for there always there for you, you should have some fun with your friends/best friends and forget about your ex boyfriend that send you a harsh message..

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  • It would be very difficult but just kick him away from your thoughts and life as soon as possible, never lose your self respect

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  • Tell his girlfriend.
    Expose the cheat!

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    • Unless he’s got solid evidence or the girl has sense, this probably won’t work.

    • A friend of his girlfriend contacted me and told me the truth because she felt bad. his girlfriend knows already because she went through his phone, that's why he broke up with me because she made him. He told her that he didn't really love me so they are still together

  • Go dumpster diving

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  • Screw him!!! Go out and have a singles party with your gal pals—who wants a prick like that anyway? Let your anger and sadness out at the gym and eat ice cream to compensate ❤️ Sending support!

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    • Or your guy pals, whichever!

  • I’m sorry that happened to you. This text angered me. Let time heal your wounds, it healed mine.

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What Guys Said 5

  • You clearly need to notify his new girlfriend that you were a thing. Then gather your closest friends and hit the town, forget about them and enjoy yourself. If that doesn't work then eat ice-cream whilst watching Netflix.

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  • doesn't sound like you were together to begin with they just wanted sex

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  • Well, I'd tell his girlfriend and burn their future to the ground.

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  • That's gay

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    • no shit dumbass

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    • im looking for serious responses so can you bugger off. Im already in a horrible mood from having my heart smashed, and shit like this really isn't helping

    • just because it’s gay doesn’t mean you can judge a gay person or say that’s gay, His still a human being like you. They deserve respect and love like all human beings do, no matter who they love or what gender they’re attracted to, Stay positive dude. @Chandelierboing.

  • A day with idiots with guns and trucks

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