I feel really hurt by a breakup how do I get over it?

[hardboiledink]

My girlfriend broke up with me and it makes me feel angry and sad. Like I don't want to trust women at all.

How do I get over it?

[strawberrybaby3]

I understand how you feel but the only way it’ll get better is with time. You have to go through the anger and sadness and just let it go. Be patient with yourself, don’t think that if you’re not over it in a month that there’s something wrong with you. You’re human and it’s going to take a while to heal from the breakup. And I assure you a year from now you’ll be laughing at how much you cared.

[hardboiledink]

Thanks

[Billlewis]

The way I see it, you've got three choices --

-- try to get her to change her mind

-- try to find someone else

-- take a break from dating for a while and try to heal yourself, until you're ready to start meeting women again

[exitseven]

I got dumped in a very cruel way. It really hurt and for a long time I was angry and maybe I took it out on other girls.

The only thing that you can do is give it time and try to find something elae to think about.

[hardboiledink]

Thanks it hurts and sucks and yes I hate women right now talking about "love" which is such BS. My ex said she did with me yet she left