Will someone be narcissistic if he rejects you after you want him back?

[Anonymous]

Am sure he was narcissistic, no doubt. , he himself also accepted it before. But its like 3 months now, n since i broke up with him for gaslighting me. N he never even once texted me or anything so i texted him n told him i love him, took a lot if courage to do that cuz ik its bad call but he said not to message him again n he has new girl. In my head am thankful for the rejection but deep down am still bounded to him.
Can narcissistics people do that? Or is he gonna blow me up later after i move on?

[Sorrento-Sun]

Narcs view people as supply. They're emotional vampires. They don't always go back to a previous supply.

However, if you really believe he is a narc it would be best to cut all means of contact with him so he can never "hoover "you back in again.

Narcs destroy people.. mentally, physically and emotionally and spirtually. Narcs are only a shell of a person. They take all they can from healthy minded individuals only to leave them destroyed and like an empty vessel.

[Asker]

Now am thankful i went out bfr he can do that.

[Sorrento-Sun]

Good. There's a high chance he will try to come back. Some narcs come back years later. There's no time limit to when they could come back into your life.

[Asker]

Am strong enough now, he won't get to me even if he tries.

[Sorrento-Sun]

Good. If he dees try to come back and he realizes you have strong boundaries he'll move onto the next victim.

[Sorrento-Sun]

Thanks for the MHO ❤️

[Bethany22]

I doubt he will come back. Narcissists don't like rejection, so he won't want to face the risk of you dumping him again.

[Asker]

Thats good then. I just need to heal without the fear of him coming back n ruin it

[Tren58]

You need to run the hell away. Narcissistic people live for making you think they are they only people to love and be loved by. They make you feel special, then they break you down. They do this in cycles, because it brain washes you into needing them. Then, when they are no longer getting anything from you, or when you see through their ploys, they leave you. Sounds like he doesn’t want you because you know what he is.

[Asker]

Yes, i know so much now. I kept watching videos n reading articles about narcissistic people so i connected the dots with his behavior towards me n others. I got to say he got me good. I feel suffocate when i don't talk to him. I tried so hard for 3 months to stay away n i thought i was doing good but just yesterday i got this uncontrollable urge to message him like a fool. N i did n i got so disappointed again.

I can't wait to move on from this. So tired now