If a partner wanted a separation from you , would you wait for them or move on to someone else?

[Finchie40]

Me personally would move on to someone else , because if your partner truly valid you , they wouldn’t need a separation from you to begin with , so give them all the space they need and find yourself someone that doesn’t need space from you , agree or disagree

[NathanDavis]

I almost agreed with you for once...

but no, I would not move to someone else... I would just move on my own

if they wanted to separate, then yes... our relationship as it used to be it would be no longer the same, and it would quite quite very far from what it was

not only that, it also would mean that I failed tremendously and so did she, I've never been in a failed relationship like this but, I still think that I would not want to revive something for I didn't even care enough in the first place

[Finchie40]

The proper thing to do is just move on yourself but sadly most people tend to move on to someone else so either or it doesn’t really matter, What matters is you don’t wait for someone that wants a separation from you period , Whether they met someone else or they need space for themselves the truth is they do not value you period , if they valued you they wouldn’t be needing space from you period , When I meet someone that tells me they are going through a separation with their partner , the first thing I tell them is to move on and don’t waste anymore of your time with that person , You are only hurting yourself by thinking that person is going to eventually come back to you , Ypu have Sucker written right on your head , do not fall for that shit , no matter what , A person that needs space is a person that only cares about themselves , they don’t consider their partner’s feelings what so ever , it’s a selfish mindset to even consider space in a relationship, if someone needs space in a relationship go walk on the other room and spend some alone time , don’t leave the house and disappear for hours at a time , My ex would disappear and wouldn’t call me or text me , I was sad and hurt that my feelings didn’t matter to her , In my mind she was already cheating on me , whether she was physically or not , she was cheating on our relationship period , I realized in myself I no longer want to be in a relationship with a girl that disappears on me , so I would end it right then and there and tell her to not come back to my house that it is over between us period

[Finchie40]

Sadly I witness this behavior in a lot of other people’s relationships as well friends and family etc. They sadly allow themselves to be fooled and walk around with Sucker on their head , and yes I myself allowed this to happen to me as well not knowing any better , thinking Love will save the day , until I realized that person already doesn’t love
Me , because if they did, I wouldn’t be standing here like a nervous wreck and having all these horrible thoughts in my head that she is up to no good and I thought to myself I don’t possess this kind of behavior so why am I allowing it to happen to me? That was my answer to never fall for this nonsense again , if you don’t want to stand by my side that’s fine don’t expect me
To stand by yours period

[molonski2]

Id cut clean the dead wood immediately , they dont want to be with me , its probably mutual.

[IslaTheWitch]

My husband informed me about the separation and moved out. I'm not sure if he is someone or alone. I try to not care.

[Finchie40]

Whether he is or not , do not wait for him , move on , if he truly valid you and loved you he wouldn’t need space from you period , don’t waste your time with someone that treats you like a convenience period

[IslaTheWitch]

Thanks :)

The problem is that I don't really know what happened. And I hate to be kept in the dark. I don't wait for him. I don’t have expectations. But some answers to create a closure would be appreciated.

[Finchie40]

I’m sorry to hear that happened to
You , not having an answer as to why a partner left you is so immature. It definitely shows what kind of person your husband is, A selfish piece of shit period , The same thing happened to my brother when his wife left him , she just left with no answer as to why , My brother was devastated for a long time because he had no clue why all of a sudden she left him

[Bethany22]

You have my thoughts exactly

[Finchie40]

Yea, never waste your time with someone who needs space or separation from you all of a sudden when they never needed it before. They are clearly talking out their ass and clearly keeping their options opened , The truth is a partner that needs space from you is someone that just liked the covienence of you in the first place , so let them go have all the space they want , but don't be waiting for them, move on yourself

[Anonymous]

Move on. NEVER wait for ANY woman.

And this goes for women to. Never wait on a man.