Would you take your partner back if they left you for someone else?

[assistant]

Would you take your partner back if they left you for someone else? Could you forgive him/her?

[catiecatie]

So my last guy told me he needed time over Snapchat. 3 weeks later he found another woman in another state. Couple months later she got pregnant with his 2nd child. He was divorced and had a child with his ex wife. I don't know if he knows he has a 2nd child or not as I do believe they broke up. Whenever he contacts me, as I have a really good paying job and he would need help with child support, I would go out with him and ask him what he did in that time. If he lied to me I would flat out say want to try that again? As I know what you did. You went down to insert name of place here on your birthday found a girl down there and forgot about why we ended things. Want to tell me how your kid is doing? And then he would say that the one I’m thinking of is doing okay and I would say no not that one. I’d love to tell him this as he broke my heart and I hope I can. I will tell him he was a big idiot as you don’t break up with someone over social media. That is the most coward way out of things. At least have the balls to tell me in person. So I’m conclusion, no I wouldn’t take him back. I want 3-4 kids of my own and he probably doesn’t want another one. I like this one guy and I hope he comes around, but he works with my ex and I don't know what’s being said about me over there at my last job. No I didn’t leave because of my ex I left because a code of conduct as broken. I hope the guy I like realizes that we would be perfect together. Fingers crossed that we end up talking and hanging out!

[Sour-rose]

I don't think so. That means that other one wasn't good enough for them... so if in three years, they find someone who is living better than I am, they'll do the same. What's the point of using that time with someone if they just gonna jump like how I would from a job that I see going nowhere.

I'm a human (asexual queen but still), not a job. So if they jump for someone else, then I won't just bounce back and find someone... it's gonna hurt and feel like I wasted half of my life with someone I thought be there until the end. :c

[AdithyaR]

Nope, I come with a no takeback policy. Once you put this product back on the shelf, you're not getting it back.

[Guy13]

It is very unlikely unless married but not divorced. The covenant element has Value.

[ariadneR]

I'd forgive, but no I wouldn't take them bake.

There are consequences for your actionsLive with them.

[Sorrento-Sun]

Never. Because I'd never be able to trust him again. It would cause emotionally instability. I'd never feel emotionally safe with him.

[prensesmishka]

I guess nothing is certain in human relations. I cannot give a clear answer to this because it is necessary to know the reason.

[Qinart]

I did it several times and it was never a good decision, in the end it'd have been better for both sides to not go this road again.

[ShesRad80]

no, once that trust is broken it cannot be fixed in my eyes

[sparklefairy]

Depends which ex and if I've been with anyone else either

[AsaKyo]

If they were genuinely sorry for what they did, then I could forgive them, but it would take a lot of time to earn my trust back

[Anonymous]

My ex has taken me back, but I wouldn’t take anyone back.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Nope. Their loss. To me, such behavior is only going to happen later as well.

[OddBeMe]

Loyalty is big with me. So it would depend on the context.

[Wilson3000]

Nope, I don’t forgive people, you hurt me it’s bye bye time.

[TrueConfection]

Forgive? Yes. Take back? No.

[Youryeodongsaeng]

If my ex married that person, then no.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not... Period.

[Drumlin2001]

No. Though it's complicated with kids invovled.

[Nikki1989]

That would never happen.

[douride2]

Sorry but not ever going to happen again.

[Confusedashell123]

Categorically no

[Iron_Man]

Hell no, that’s betrayal

[Pterodon]

Fuck no