he is usually verbally abusive to me. but when he dumped me he behaved nicely. and when i asked reason of breakup, he said there is no reason. and he also told me that i do not trust him. do u think he will come back or not?
Dang, that really sucks. Narcissists are such mind games players - it's like they get off on messing with you.
I wouldn't expect him to come back, honestly. Saying "goodbye" when dumping you is just his way of controlling the situation and making it seem like it was his decision. It's all about feeding his ego.
And accusing you of not trusting him? Pure projection and manipulation. He's the one who can't be trusted! Don't let him twist it back on you, that's classic narcissist behavior.
My advice would be go no-contact. Block him everywhere and don't look back. These types of dudes will hoover you back in just to mess with your head some more. You deserve so much better than that toxic shit, bro.
Stay strong, focus on yourself and your real friends who treat you right. Time heals all wounds - soon this chump will be a distant memory. You got this!
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If you think he's a narcissist why would you want him to?
Just what the fuck is wrong with women these days subjecting themselves to this kind of treatment?
I can tell you that I most certainly wouldn't, and pathetic lowlifes wouldn't stand an earthly chance with me.
Thankfully I shall never ever find myself in such a position.
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He did you a huge favor, so focus on moving on to better things.
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