People with the Intent to cheat, so you rather avoid accountability by separating from a committed relationship, then to simply eradicate the intent?

[Altheavas]

Please explain your rationale? Why does anyone think it’s best to separate from a longterm partner, then to avoid cheating in general.
I understand if there is an increase of irreconcilable differences, the romance die, you just can’t see yourself growing with that person through your endeavors, but separate because you can’t handle your urges before it happens. That is avoiding accountability.

[MasseurDeMojo]

I have never been in that situation. I have been the friend who was there to pick up the pieces of my female friend's heart after a guy cheated on her. I basically just listened to her, and let her reason through what happened.

For the guy, he felt that she was smothering him, and he wanted to sow his wild oats wherever the wind carried him. He and her separated, it totally destroyed her.

I have also seen it where the woman cheats. A workmate and good friend was married to a woman who had a few medical issues but appeared loving. When I saw them together, they were always happy and fun. About 4 years later I saw him again, and found out that he had divorced her; she had been seeing another man for about a year while married to him.

This totally destroyed his faith and trust in women, and hardened his heart completely! She was o. k. with it, and did not see what the big deal was with her getting it from another man.

[Anonymous]

I think a lot of people do that to avoid accountability.

[Kelly6]

@altheavas very nice question ,

waiting for results 😊

[Kelly6]

@altheavas
I once was in that boat but I took different turn.

[Kelly6]

@altheavas
thanks for MHO lol

[Kelly6]

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