My boyfriend says cocaine helps him with puking?

[Anonymous]

Im getting tired of it!

He has some health issue with his stomach that he wakes up puking nearly everyday.

Then he smokes cocaine, yes smokes it and he feels better... it makes him paranoid and he spends lots of money.

He says he is not addicted and only uses it when sick.

I hate it i want him to go to the doctors! But when I asked :when are we going? he said : I dont wanna talk about it now.

I got disgusted and angry and left to my house, I kid you not I felt Such disgust I took my car and went home as fast as I could. I couldnt be in his company anymore, didn't feel like kissing or hugging him!

Its so strange what i feel. i know he is doing it when he is sick but i can't help feel angry and i feel he lies to me and actually doesn't wanna get rid of the problem because of the way he stops it.

He is absolutely amazing human being, very smart, he is architect. He bought a new house recently. I mean he is not a street junkie... but yes. He does this awful thing.

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah girl, that's crazy about your boyfriend smoking coke to stop puking. I can understand why you're so upset though - that shit is just not good for him at all, addictive and expensive.

Him refusing to go to the doctor just confirms he doesn't really wanna get to the root of the health issue if it means giving up the coke. That's not cool that he's hiding behind being "sick" as an excuse either.

I gotta be real with you - him using hard drugs, even if "only sometimes", is just unacceptable especially if you see a future together. His health and wellbeing should be the priority here.

If I were you, I'd give him an ultimatum - he goes to get checked out properly asap, commits to quitting coke 100% no excuses, or it's over between you. You don't deserve that stress and worry, sis. You gotta put your foot down!

I know it'll be tough if he's otherwise amazing. But his health and your happiness should come before anything. Don't hesitate to walk if he doesn't change his ways, you feel me? You got this!

[MrOracle]

He absolutely need to see a doctor and he absolutely is abusing (not just using) those drugs. They may make him feel better in the moment, but they will also make his condition worse and worse over time, and reduce his overall health.

What you REALLY need to do is start planning your escape from this relationship. No matter how strong his feelings for you might have once been, you cannot compete against drugs, especially if you have a problem with him taking them. He will find a way to justify the drugs over you - because that's what addicts do.

You need to disengage from him in all ways - financially, living together, etc. - and your friends and family all need to know why. You have to put yourself first, because the drugs have him, and he WILL NOT CARE what happens to you, as long as he can get more drugs.

[rosemilk]

says he's not addicted, only uses it when sick, yet is always sick... that's an excuse right there. an excuse to continue using drugs.

why exactly are you still with him? you try to help him, he dismisses it. he can be as smart and successful, yet still be an awful boyfriend. he isn't treating you very well, and he also isn't treating himself very well.

you cannot help him or change him unless he wants to get the help or put in the effort to change. you can only be there to give support. but it's not a pretty road to go down, with someone who is addicted to cocaine.

[Asker]

he does treat me well
and yes he is sick
i lived with him
he wakes up puking and in pain and only that shit helps we both dont know why

[AviatorTom]

Your boyfriend is finding an excuse for his habit. He needs help.

[Asker]

he literally only does it when he pukes
i saw it

[AviatorTom]

Believe that you want...

[molonski2]

Plenty of professionals do coke , he is looking for excuses , it's not the harmless drug everyone thinks , he is an addict , if not he would attend the doctor.
It's an excuse , I have a mate like your guy.

[Apple1996]

He's definitely a addict

[Luckycharms12]

Ya he hasa huge problem

[operator24]

Oh God do you really wanna know?

[Anonymous]

don't drink cocaine sister

[Anonymous]

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