Just discovered my boyfriend does drugs?

[Anonymous]

He confessed he smokes crack and takes cocaine when he has health problens or when he is going out with his friends

He Is amazing In everything iIm really Happy... BUT I HATE DRUGS

He says he is not addict he takes it when he wants and doesn't need nuch and has total control

What to do?

How to react?

What to say?

IM FREAKING OUT!!!

He startwd justifying himself that many famous and succesfull people also take drug... wtf?

[Avcfhcic]

For me, that's a massive red flag that he's hid. There's so many things wrong with drugs use, what if he is an addict or has a dodgy dealer or asks you for money to pay for it.
Drugs and smoking are big no no's for me

[Asker]

So what to do?
I know him for 4 years and 1.7 we are in a relationship

[Anonymous]

He's absolutely right. I mean look at Bobby Brown. He could handle it. It was Whitney Houston that couldn't.

[Asker]

So what to do?
Just ignore this fact?

[Opinion Owner]

Well If you don't instinctively know what to do here it's not going to do any good for me to tell you.

[Anonymous]

Tell him it’s you or the drugs, and no exceptions.

[Opinion Owner]

Using drugs when he has health problems makes no sense.

[Asker]

But he doesn't use it with me
If he didn't tell i wouldn't even know

[Asker]

He has it makes him feel better
Cocaine helps he says i guess its just numbs it

[Opinion Owner]

That doesn't make his drug use acceptable.

[Asker]

What do you want me to do

[Opinion Owner]

Its really up to you, but I say dump him.

[Summeroflove]

Report to the police

[Asker]

Why?

[Asker]

Really? so now we report people who take drugs? what about parties and festivals?

[Summeroflove]

Yup because drugs are illegal meth head