Have you guys ever been cheated on and what did you do?

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I got cheating on in 2019 with my ex with three of his girls in the back of the bus and was very hurt

sawno · Accepted Answer

Kind off but technically not. Your case sounds very extreme. In my case she was someone I fancied and we were getting close. She was "Quickly going to the post office and then we'd hang out since she was looking forward to us hanging out", turns out she was online gaming with friends. I joined the talk on an alt and she was whining that I kept messaging her (If she had told me she wasn't in the mood that day and wanted to hang out with friends nothing would have been wrong).

Later it turned out she had a boyfriend she didn't tell me about, she kept me open as an option since her relationship was going bad and turns out she was hanging out with her boyfriend.

So felt like cheating to me since we were getting close, she didn't tell me about her boyfriend and she was shit talking me behind my back while claiming to be excited to hang out with me.

Originally I forgave her since I understood the complexity of the boyfriend situation and I was much younger. Now I know I shouldn't have, and she also didn't change. It did leave a scar in the sense that if people are missing an appointment without telling me why I get uneasy. But luckily in my love life since that has proven a good tell, the good girls always tell me up front whats going on that may delay or hinder them. The bad girls pretend they missed me so much after the fact or blame me for making a big deal out of it, but never initiate on their own once I stop.

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

yeppers, twice.
By my exwife, I caught her with the landlord, who was also married.
I knew something was going on, just not with who.
I came home early and caught them, he was backing into the closet trying to pull up his pants, it's pretty funny now, and she ask what was I doing home to which I replied I used to live here and walked away, hence the ex part.
And an ex-girlfriend who I was planning to marry, but that didn't go so well who was cheating on me, again I left, the ex part was a spoiler, she wanted to get back together later, I guess the grass wasn't so green, I thought about it long and hard, but I just didn't.
I've always wondered what if we had gotten back together.

electromagnetic · Accepted Answer

I have and I just left the dude. That’s it. There really isn’t anything else

laly520 · Accepted Answer

once he cheated it was over as simple as that

Summeroflove · Answer

Sorry to hear that. No. I’ve never been cheated on, at least that I know of. But I’m pretty careful who I chose. I don’t just pick up any Jane off the street either.

MysticDevice · Answer

I was. I left her immediately and didn't look back. I put a lot of effort into that relationship and was beyond patient when it came to anything sexual related (as in we never had sex in the 14 months I was with her).

So when she confessed she did it with someone else I pulled the plug and called it a day. She did ask for another chance and I really wanted to give her one but I decided not to.

aceleon · Answer

never, if you don't date, youcan't get cheated on, i only have sex and even though i had fuck buddies i meticulously searched for Bİ ones so instead of cheatings we had ffm 3 somes and when they wanted things like dp, strap ons were there.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Well after 10 years together just found out that she wants to be "his" wife, and she wants him to admit it online, so now, just want to leave far, far away as possible.

Billlewis · Answer

Every time I've gotten cheated on, I ended up loving her even more and treating her like a queen.

BlissfullyCurSed · Answer

You mean they did in the back of the bus when you're on the bus?🙄🙄 Luckily, no.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Kinda but we were not real serious anyway ( I was in high school)... but I missed the great handjobs I was getting... I just moved on

MikeyPH85 · Answer

My ex wife cheated on me like a month and a half before we got married and my dumbass still married her!! Needless to say the two years we were married was any better...

rosemilk · Answer

thankfully no. so sorry that happened to you

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

No I'm careful picking partners but sorry about your situation tho

bradley142 · Answer

i have and was lied to about it for years it sucked and tbh my heart isn't the same as it once was kinda made me cold heated in some way you could say

Redstang88 · Answer

Not that I’m aware of but I’m sure it’s happened

Anonymous · Answer

yes, it was devestating. I've forgiven and moved on.

JacobJordan · Answer

Nope. Never got with a shitty person

Anonymous · Answer

Nope.

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