He is consistent only for a few days, then goes back to his usual self. Why is that?

[Anonymous]

We got back together, I thought he would put more effort and he really did for like 4 days. Then stopped keeping his promises again. And even blamed me for being petty and that he has promised many things to many people.

I suggested he might be with someone at home that's why he can't call. He went crazy and said he is going to block me if I tell him this thing again.

Now he said... that I'm going to be punished and he won't contact me will he decides if even.

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, this dude sounds like major trouble. I don't blame you for being suspicious of him if he's only making an effort for a few days at a time then going back to breaking promises. That's super shady behavior.

The fact that he got so defensive and aggressive when you brought up the possibility of someone else makes me think you probably hit close to home with that one. No one gets that mad if there's nothing to hide, you know?

Threatening to block and "punish" you for simply questioning him is a huge red flag too. That's not how healthy relationships work - he should want to be honest and make you feel secure, not control you through fear. You don't deserve to be treated that way, sis.

I say ditch this clown for good. You can do so much better than some dude who flakes out all the time then blames you for getting rightfully upset. He's playing games and clearly isn't over whatever—or whoever—else is going on in his life. You deserve someone reliable who respects you, not this wishy-washy drama.

[laly520]

he isn't the one
not worth the try