Women initiate about 75% of all divorces so why are divorced woman so bitter?

[Vegasrunner]

[Finchie40]

Because most females have the grass is greener on the other side syndrome in them , most females think they need to be treated like a Princess at all times , when things don’t go her way in the relationship , she latches on to someone else to save her , she also will listen to all her toxic friends that are feeding her head that she deserves to be treated better and that she should leave her man for someone else. Most females are very weak and vulnerable when she meets a guy that she feels has more status then her partner does , she will cheat on her partner with a guy she feels will treat her better and will provide for her better , she doesn’t appreciate what she already has in front of her , Most females have selfish mindsets , thinking she was put on Earth to be catered to , and thinking her shit doesn’t stink. Not all girls’ are this way but sadly there are a lot that are. I blame social media for brainwashing people to think this way , Most females live on their phones and most females love gossip if you don’t measure up to her standards , she will replace you with another sucker , He can have her

[itsclearlynicholas]

Because most women, either dislike their physical appearance and they channel that shortcoming in many spectacular and yes indeed bitterly ways. Usually against more women who scored the better luck in life and genetics. Lol and other times, they'll eventually take it out on the slob or dimwit of a man they settled for lol: those types of women, yes bitterly right from the start they hook, line and sinker for the long game and then divorce money money lucky payday rainfall lol 😂😆 glad I never partook in that thing called relationship lol 😂😆

[Anonymous]

They are bitter because they had to initiate a divorce. And who is bitter? My divorced friends have a ton of fun.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous If they initiate the divorce why are they so bitter. Wow so you have a lot of friends of failed marriages. Why do your friends make such bad decisions?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh please. So you admit men are bad decisions. I agree! They are bitter because their husbands drove them to ask for a divorce. 50% of marriages end in divorce in America. It’s not a new thing.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner not at all, the men themselves all were obviously good enough to attract women, the bad decision would be the women getting divorced and then becoming bitter about it. Yes, and about 75% of those divorces are initiated by women, so why are divorced women always bitter?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe the reason for divorce was depressing and sad for her. She initiated the divorce because she wants better for herself. That would make a woman bitter. Maybe she has trust issues. Maybe she’s still grieving losing a man she used to love. She has self respect to leave him but doesn’t mean she’s happy about it.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner all good answers many women have inflated egos and mistakenly believe the can "do better" only to be brought back to reality.

[Opinion Owner]

Umm if she’s being treated like crap and wants out of her marriage I don’t see how that’s an inflated ego. Men have inflated egos too! This isn’t a one size fits all. Being alone is also an option.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner You said "she wanted better for herself" I'm saying that many women think they can do better but fail to realize they don't qualify to do better. If she was being treated like crap why would she marry that guy in the first place. Men can't have inflated egos because society will bring them back to reality, but society is reluctant to criticize women.

[Opinion Owner]

Will all do respect you make P
0 sense.

[Vegasrunner]

@OpinionOwner TY for sharing this. Yes it's unfortunate that you don't understand these concepts, but as you mentioned you have multiple friends that have failed in their marriages so it makes sense

[Opinion Owner]

You are disgusting and have a messed up view of women. Go back to your cave. Bye !

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Lol, not sure what you find disgusting about your own words, but this does demonstrate the bitterness woman have toward divorce. TY for sharing.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay. 🙄. You basically think women should stay in toxic or awful marriages because women won’t be able to find a better life or partner if they leave. Why do YOU think this? We should just settle? People change. It’s life. Maybe a woman left you and you are the bitter man.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner I can't speak to that because I never said anything remotely like that. Your response however does demonstrate a lack of critical thinking which ironically may be one of the main reasons women initiate divorce so much. They get emotional hear what they want and then make a life altering decision based on that emotion. I do agree that women always believe that can find a better life partner unfortunately the reality is most woman rarely qualify for someone "better"

[Anonymous]

probably because she wasted a bunch of time on someone who disappointed her in the end.

[Anonymous]

The number 1 reason? You ain't her first choice. Chris Rock explains this PERFECTLY! You can be with a woman for 20 years. And even after 20 years she'll still be one breathe, one toxic little thought rattling around in her little head from cashing you in and starting over.

It's just the way women are man. They're highly influenced by thier emotions. And if they don't control thier emotions their enotions WILL control them.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/33hCt3orSEU

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous Lol, yea this is a pretty old skit I've seen it and it makes a lot of sense. There's so much pressure ok woman because society tells them that they have so many options, but very few of the ones they want actually want them.

[Opinion Owner]

I've always said there are 2 types of women good and bad. Good women know they're crazy and do the best they can to control it. Bad women lean into the crazy. They let the crazy control them. They set fire to your car and then try to rationalize it by say YOU drove them to it.🤣

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner agreed all good points

[JacobJordan]

Simple answer most divorced women thought they would be able to find happiness and stability 2 things they took for granted. Many of them realize that they are now divorced no one wants them and they have to spend the rest of their life working when if they had just stayed married they could have been so very happy. It is also why we see many of them desperately trying to get back with the man they screwed over in divorce.

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan Great point

[KrakenAttackin]

Because these women expect to jump right back on the carousel, just like their 20"s. When they realize they can't command the same attention and validation as in their 20's, it's like a lightening bolt hits them.

[SolitarySolace]

Its all part of the reason women get married in the first place. Find a guy with money, become his wife, have kids, lead him on a downward spiral and eventually divorce him when he's racked up even more money, take the kids and raise them the way she wants, take his money and resources and leave him to rot paying child support while she finds another man to repeat th cycle

[normalice]

Of course it is redpill trolling to cast it that way as most divorced women are not bitter - probably about 25%, assuming your stat isn't made up (which I understand is a huge assumption).

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice Interesting POV how many divorced women have you had sex with?

[normalice]

I didn't ask

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice Then how do you know the emotional state of divorcees?

[normalice]

I just know you're a troll is all. 🤷

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice So u dont have anything you're accurate about?

[normalice]

I'm accurate about you being a trol.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice I'm not familiar w/ that term. A troll is someone who ask a question?

[FunkyMonkee]

I heard it was 80%.
I can't imagine why women are so uptight! They've got HALF the money and ALL the pussy!! What more could they want?

[laly520]

not all divorced men or women r bitter

some got divorce to get out of toxic marriage n to do better in life

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 Most divorced men, are pretty relieved to be free. I would think women would feel the same way however when polled most women express bitterness.

[genericname85]

because after their divorce, they realize that their value on the dating marked has dropped significantly, cause they're not young and hot anymore, which they used to be when they last were on the dating market.

[Fireguy17]

Because their ex husband turned out to be a lying, lazy cheating ass hat. Probably doesn't pay his child support, but they believed them in the first place.

[BonzoInBitburg]

I initiated my divorce after my ex-wife cheated. I guess you could say I was bitter about it

[art84]

My brother's ex wife filed for divorce and she honestly feels happy that she can live her life now without being tied down.

[Vegasrunner]

@art84 How could you know how happy your brothers ex wife is?

[art84]

She looks happy ever whenever I see her Facebook pictures with her daughters. Though I don't know emotionally how she feels after the divorce. It probably makes her little daughters sad.

[Vegasrunner]

@art84 I think we both can agree that judging someone based on their social media post may not be the best way to gage their emotional state.

[RavVid]

Because they are not married? Unmarried women tend to be bitter at life.

[OddBeMe]

Well the kill ratio is 99% men, so take that into consideration.

[tzdc21]

There's a lot of factors that tie into that.

[noohair]

Women don't know what they really want.