Is it normal to feel bad after you broke up and then got back together and realized your partner had sex with other people while apart?

[Anonymous]

And how do I get over it?

[Anonymous]

I’d say yes a lot of women would probably feel the same. But a the same time do you really have a leg to stand on w that? You two broke up. That means we’re done. You went one way he went another. He chose a path where he could sleep w other women. His choice, he wasn’t committed to you.

[Asker]

Yeah I completely get that though but breaking up with me and then wanting be back I'd assume you wouldn't have

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me pretty much all men want to sleep w other women. He just saw a window of opportunity to do so when you two broke up.

[Berethor]

I would not get over something like that, but then I don't want to date a non-virgin anyway.

[Nikki1989]

You can't expect people to put their lives on hold just for you.

[Asker]

I can't obviously but we agreed that broken up or not we wouldn't with other people

[BonzoInBitburg]

Seriously? Did you honestly think that after breaking up, he wouldn't see anyone else? That's not how breaking up works

[laly520]

its totally over

no point in taking em back

[Asker]

So after they with someone else and want me back then it's a no go?

[laly520]

yes
no point

[zagor]

Ah get over it. You can't expect them to stand still waiting for you to come back.