Concerned. A guy breaking up with his partner would not flatter me, but rather worry me. Why?
If he does that to be with me, imagine if he finds someone else he's attracted to- he'll do the same thing.
I'll definitely give him kudos for not cheating, but I'd definitely make sure he: was fully over his ex, ask him why he wants to date me, why did he leave his ex, and make sure I'm not just some lust or rebound.
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No. I do have some morals. I can’t be or can’t trust someone who hurt a person that loved him.
I can’t base my happiness on someone’s pain.
Somewhere in the past, I promised myself, I’d be a decent person and it goes against my rule.
I can totally do that, I have lots of married or taken guys interested in me, but I won’t lower myself to that level nor will I compromise my morals. Because they make me who I am.
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I would be flattered as long as he convinced me that it was because while he was with her, he had always had the image of a woman with my physical, mental, emotional characteristics, and then when I came along, he preferred either to be with me or single, as he knew it wouldn't be fair to his girlfriend if he was just with her for convenience.
How I'd truly feel would probably depend on the specific circumstance, my connection with the person, if I felt their former partner deserved them, etc.
I wouldn't want a woman to do that.
It wouldn't bother me.
I had girlfriends in high school who had boyfriends before they showed interest in me.
I didn't care. Although I wouldn't have taken up with a girl if her boyfriend was a friend of mine.
I figure that every normal girl has or had a boyfriend. It's not like they are married. People are allowed to move on if they are not satisfied with their partner. You're not obligated to stay with a boyfriend/girlfriend forever. That's not being unfaithful unless they are married. I wouldn't touch a married woman.
If I turned down every girl who had a boyfriend, I wouldn't have ever had a girlfriend.
It's not like I actively poached someone's girlfriend. But if a girl was into me, that was her business.
I moved on from four different girlfriends for various reasons, myself, in my teens and 20s. It's part of life, personal growth, gaining experience, and finding the right partner.
I'll add that, when I was young, I wasn't interested in getting married. I wasn't looking for a naive virgin to settle down with for the rest of my life.I don't like to see anyone hurt in a breakup or otherwise.
The other person is obviously a homewrecker and she stole your man. W. So, what kind of man is this that would switch for someone better? Obviously they were looking, on the hunt. But if they were making it ok with the other person, then they should have stayed with the first one.
This kind of guy that will just up and leave you for someone else, regardless of how bad they are hurting the person they broke up with is selfish and out for himself. He will do it to the new one too. Dump her for someone else because he's never satisfied.
Look at all the famous women that were wonderful, lovely, beautiful women, and they got dumped for someone else. Jennifer Aniston's got left by Brad Pit, git remarried and divorced. Halke Barry - she was on Oprah because her man broke up with her and broke her heart. She was crying and saying she will never fall in love again. President John F. Kennedy cheated a lot. He even used Marilyn Monroe to get laid.
Man, it's everywhere. I was a damn good wife to my first husband. We seemed happy. I was in love and thought he was too. Then he joined a rocknroll band and spent almost all of his time with those guys. Now, he never said before we got married that he was going to do that, which would leave me lonely all the time. But shit happens.
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Then this last one was a sweetheart the first year. We separated for three years, when he came back he was addicted to meth. He died two months ago.
I told myself, self, it's time to stop this nonsense called love. I am so done with it.
Oh, you can try standing on your head dor him. That might work. 😂🤣🤩
.Back in my day of thinking RPG friends were the best i got, some boy did this to me. However, he cheated on me and went with her. How did I feel? Annoyed? He came back claiming he cut his wrists for doing such a thing? Couldn't care less.
Now if this was IRL... i'd feel more scared and want to run. If you do that to your partner for me, I'm gonna think you're a murderer and will slit my throat open when we in your truck going into a dark road where's there barely any light and just leave my body on the side of the road. 🙃
They dumb stupid to do that that’s for sure.
I made sure people who I was interested in were single for this exact reason and exes are exes. Thinking now, if I got a new colleague and he mistakes my niceless for flirting and breaks up with his partner to ask me out, he’s DUMBBBB.I would say it's life.
Suppose you were in a relationship at any stage and found the perfect person. Would you give up?
I'm not talking about cheating, leaving kids without financial support or meetings. I say, if you find your love, why should you give up? Just break or divorce your current partner in a civilized way.What if the bond of those two people was a mistake and he made it clear to her and break up and only after be with me?
It depends on how it's done.
Also depends if someone is breaking up with their situationship or spouse of 20 years with children.
I'd be suspicious anyway but still 😂My initial reaction might be that he really likes me and I’m special immediately followed by concern and disgust. If he was willing to leave his current partner for me, then the risk will always be there that he would in turn do that to me when the going gets rough and someone newer pops up. I wouldn’t be able to trust him, therefore I couldn’t date him
Nope thanks, i'm into helping the ones staying together and loving each other, wouldn't accept someone to destroy their other half for me because i'm a man of morals and values, who can break up with one can break up with two or three for others...
You're single than you're welcomed, you're taken than no thanks, go back to your boyfriend or husband...
If she did that then she just shot herself in the foot. Because all she did was show me her lack of loyalty. If she broke up with him then she'll break up with me to be with someone else, it's only a matter of when. I would NEVER date a woman who broke up with a guy to be with me.
Absolutely not. why? What will stop her from doing the exact same thing to me if we are in a relationship? All this would prove is I could never trust her to be in a realtionship.
That's not a good thing to me. And I wouldn't want to put myself in a situation where I'm basically a side chick and pursuing someone's man.
I wouldn’t trust them and therefore wouldn’t be with them. Because if they broke up with their previous partner just to be with me how do I know she won’t break up with me so that she could be with some other guy?
No woman is ever mine... it was just my turn. I guess that dude is learning that hard truth the hard way.
I would be afraid they'd eventually do the same to me too. I wouldn't be able to trust a man who betrayed his wife/girlfriend so deeply.
When he tells me that I know I need to gain distance to him soon as possible. Because I wouldn't feel special but selected as prey
that's not good for me...
I've distanced myself from similar situations twice before... because that's not how it should go, lolEMPOWERED LMAOOO 😆😆😆
Means I won. What else is it supposed to mean?
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