You found out that the father of your child is another man. Your wife cheated on you. Would you give up on your child?

[Anonymous]

You and your wife may divorce, but your child loves you very much. Would you give up on your child?

[Billlewis]

I'd honestly be absolutely thrilled if I could experience this exact sequence of events; the only difference would be that she wouldn't have to sneak around, and hopefully he'd be spending his weekends at our house, anyway. The two of them could just relax and enjoy one another's company, and I'd wait on them hand and foot, dashing around with cups and glasses, hurrying to fetch them whatever their capricious desires happen to be at any given moment. If they're feeling a bit sadistic, she could simply have him take his belt off and beat that ass to their mutual satisfaction and contentment.

[Flatmanlewis]

I’d raise that child like my own. If I was unaware his bio-dad was out there then no doubt he is too. Totally unfair that their life sentences them to no father. We both got done dirty by his Mother but there’s no need for us both to suffer. I’ll be the dad to my child and I can hopefully raise them to avoid such pain themselves.

[Apple1996]

That'd be pretty fucked thing to do. At least should keep some kind of relationship for the sake of the child since there is already a bond formed. I had 2 friends growing up that lived with their ex step dads even tho the parents were divorced. So it'd probably be similar to that.

But I know most men are trash and walk out even on their own blood so wouldn't surprise me if everyone here said no. Just means they don't acutally like childern or want to raise them

[nawtee_me]

It is not the kids fault and to the kid he would be the only dad he knew...

[Apple1996]

@nawtee_me yeah exactly like maybe at least keep a relationship over text or something to say hi so the kid doesn't feel abandoned

[nawtee_me]

I married a girl with two kids and one on the way, they still call me dad, and even though I divorced their mother I did not divorce them...

[Apple1996]

@nawtee_me that is so sweet you still stuck around for them

[laly520]

if I was a guy n that happened

I wouldn't give up on child who most likely have emotional bond with me, it isn't the child fault but the wife's fault

[Avicenna]

I already have four kids, so I don't think it's fair to them for me to financially support and raise some other man's kid.

[Anonymous]

No. You don't punish the child because you raised them with a whore. Now granted, the answer to this question makes a number of assumptions. One of them being that the child is still in it's formative years. And considers you thier father. Most children look up to the parent (s) that raised them as thier biological parents even if they're not.

But make no mistake about it. I don't care about her at that point. I certainly do not care about the biological father at that point. The ONLY thing I care about at that point is the child.

[molonski2]

I have a friend who went though this exactly , he does not see the child , and the relationship ended in divorce the father was a close friend , I'd be the same as him I believe , dependent on how long she managed to live out this lie.

No excuses for this stuff.

[JacobJordan]

Stop calling it "your" child it isn't. If a child is mine it contains my DNA. It is really simple. If a woman I married whored herself out to another man who knocked her up and she tried to pawn that man's spawn off on me I'd drag both outside and tell them "you can either rot here or start walking to him don't ever step foot on my property again"

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t give up on the child if I had a relationship w him or her for a number of years. But am I going to get that chance to stay in the child’s life? I say that because his mother and I would be done.

[NamerOfStars]

No. As Liam Neeson said in Rob Roy, it ain't the child that needs killing.

[NewgodOmega]

Absolutely 100 percent
That's another mans liability

[jahaims]

I would never raise another person's child. Why would I make sacrifices for some sluts mistakes.

[HighValue]

I would leave it and sue her for fraud.

[mobiusforniner]

No I would not give up on the child.

[Drumlin2001]

No. Being a dad is more than just blood.

[exitseven]

I don't know.

[Akam93]

Most men do.