Me and my ex recently broke up before we broke up we were trying for a baby it took 3 cycles for me to get pregnant. the day after we broke up I found out i was pregnant he asked me to get a abortion since we were not in a relationship anymore. it took me a few days to think about it and I agreed with him even though I wanted to keep the baby. A few days later we sat down and talked he asked me to keep the baby and we could just raise it as friends and he feels like we will be back in a relationship before the baby gets here he just wants us to work on our relationship as friends right now. I feel like we won’t be in a relationship again before the baby gets here because he’s unsure about if he wants to be with me or not I have not made up my decision yet I don’t want to get a abortion because this pregnancy was planned we talked about getting married in the future and I don’t really believe in abortions and I never had one before. But on the other hand I would like to have my child with a man who’s sure about me loves me and want to marry me in the future what would you do in this situation?
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That’s very tough… I personally would need a lot of security from the guy, making sure that he truly is committed in raising the baby together. How would the arrangement work tho if you guys do end up raising the baby as “friends”? Would you still be living together? Are you gonna date other people still? Are you sure you want to have a baby while potentially raising it as a single mom?
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I would have an abortion. Single mother life seems hard
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Depend how loaded he’s, if he’s rich i keep it and take his money if not then i abort cause i’m broke
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