Girls, how much of a burden is it being the gender that go through pregnancy and childbirth?

[Anonymous]

A huge burden

A burden like any other

A small burden

Not a burden

[Anonymous]

It is both a burden and a blessing.

Keep in mind that women can choose to not go through pregnancy, and many do. No one has to do it. It's a choice.

Giving birth is obviously painful and scary, but there is also beauty in the act of creating and bringing a child into the world, and having that deep emotional bond with your child that grows strong even while the baby is developing inside you. You'll never understad that, I know, but it's a thing.

By the way, why do you keep asking this question over and over?

[KittygosMeoWW]

It’s only a burden if you don’t have a partner or they stress you out while your hormones are making you emotional. Other than that I loved being pregnant my skin was flawless, my hair was shiny/ thick, I was glowing, my hips got wider, and my boobs got full, and I was could get off in seconds.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Giving birth was a little painful and I had some complications but my recovery was smooth.

[Asker]

Would you do it again?

[KittygosMeoWW]

If I have a good partner that loves me I will and we’re married.

[Jessikaah91]

As much as the morning sickness, comfortable moments, pain and everything else we go through as women I'd do it 100 times more just to make sure I'd be a mum. Can be annoying but definitely not a burden.

[Asker]

To you what is the difference between burden and annoying

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have never given birth, but I can only imagine, it’s a huge sacrifice from a female. Human childbirth is very difficult and historically, sometimes ended in mother’s death.

[Asker]

Is it something you plan on doing

[DizzyDesii]

I think motherhood would be a blessing. But yes i am afraid if the pain that comes with giving birth. I can hardly handle period cramps. I may birth one kid and then just get a surrogate for the rest

[Demonatrix]

I think it can be a huge burden on some women. If you breakdown all the aspects that are intailed there are positive and negatives for everything.

[laraWM]

A huge burden, because people will discriminate against you

[Asker]

Is it burdensome other than that?

[1073sucks]

It’s a lovely experience

[Asker]

How so?

[1073sucks]

99.9999% of humans want to conceive a child. Being able to do so is a joy regardless of the process one has to go through. It is a only a small about of people who don’t actually want their very own babies, or any babies at all. It’s very common to find depressed people who are sad BECAUSE they are unable to get pregnant for one reason or another.
Even people that complain that it was a horrible experience, they still wouldn’t change that for the world and in the end that horrible experience can be the best experience they’ve ever had. Some people just have very complicated pregnancies while others have it almost easy, they’re still all happy to have been able to give life at all.

[SweetDripp]

I don’t view it as a burden at all.

[Asker]

Why not?

[SweetDripp]

Why would I?

[Asker]

Pain and aches, morning sickness, mood swings, lack of energy, physically impaired in later months

[SweetDripp]

I guess you focus on the bad and I focus on the joyful part of pregnancy and giving birth.

[Asker]

Yeah you get a baby but it sucks getting there

[Apple1996]

Nah I like being pregnant and giving birth