Girls, why do so many women decide to go through with unexpected pregnancies?

[Anonymous]

Does finding out you're pregnant make you want to have a baby? Would you feel bad about abortion? Were you talked into it?

[Anonymous]

No, it doesn’t at this moment in life. And no I wouldn’t feel bad, why would I? Because society wants me to? No one would have talked me into it. And you know what if I lived a life where my boyfriend or partner shamed me into continuing with an unwanted pregnancy (because YES you can STILL get pregnant with protection) then all he better know is since it was a joint effort to create the baby, it’ll be a joint effort financially and you’ll be paying for the child support for the next 18 years. I know a woman getting $1,400 in child support a month. I’d love that money so bring it on.

[Anonymous]

Mine was my mother in law is pretty prolife. I was told over and over how I had a "village" and support.
Now, I want to phrase that I DO have a village and good support. But I still should have followed my gut with my initial feelings.

[Asker]

Do you regret having a baby then?

[Opinion Owner]

yes. for me it wasn't a good choice mentally.

[Asker]

Do you still have custody?

[Opinion Owner]

yes. i attend therapy and my partner and like i said i have support. i give them as best of a life as I can since it wasn't their choice

[butterly248]

It's a mix of things! But it is her choice!