Is this a bad idea?

[Anonymous]

Is it a bad idea to insta cart my ex a cake for his birthday? We haven’t talked in like 3-4 years but I just thought it would be funny to send one. I mean it’s really harmless because we’re not communicating I don’t want to talk to him and he just got free cake. I don't know what are your thoughts?

[stark04]

Why? you aren't on speaking terms mutually, you're not in contact for couple of years now, why do you remember his birthday and why it's still important to you? He has moved on, why can't you do the same? He has never made any effort to get back to you but here you are thinking about him all the time, dreaming about having a house in Suburbia with couple of kids and you becoming the soccer mum.

Girl, whatever you had it's in the past, you don't have it anymore. Just move on with your life and be happy.

[Asker]

I only think about him sometimes cuz he still stalks my social media. And I remember his birthday because it’s only 4 days before mine. But okay everybody seems to think it’s a bad idea I’m not going to do it.

[stark04]

You shouldn't do what everybody thinks is best for you, you should do what's best for you. 🤗

[rosemilk]

not sure why you'd waste your money and time? and not sure why it'd be funny. kinda odd. you don't want to talk to him, yet you are reaching out? are you not expecting a reaction?

[underling]

Terrible idea

[laly520]

yes bad idea