Hi all I've recently been dating/seeing someone and now were together and she's been my girlfriend for about 5 weeks now. We meet up every week and go and do fun things etc and I've been to hers a few times she seems happy to be with me. The thing is I fine myself always texting first most days and she seems to take a bit of time inbetween replies etc (yes I know people are busy sometimes). I've seen some suggestions on Google and reddit etc of basically messaging her less, I assume the idea behind it is that if I'm not messaging much it will give her the chance to think about me and miss me. It does make sense to me and the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder rings a bell so I guess it works. I'm quite a caring person so this is very out of character for me i like to ask people how their days been what they're upto etc, were together anyway so it's not as If I have to win her affection or to make her my girlfriend because she already is. I'm tempted to message her less and see if this actually works but it's quite hard for me mentally to feel like I'm ignoring someone or not putting much effort in. Am I too caring? Will this even work? Will this make her realise my worth? Thanks any replies welcome :)
Ask to an AI Persona
Gamer Bella
With my passion and experience in hobbies and leisure activities, I'm here to offer personalized...
James The Foodie
From savoring Italian classics to discovering the bold flavors of Japanese cuisine, I explore...
Cinematic Lily
With my rich background and passion for the arts, I share insights on films, TV shows, and...
Travel Buddy
I'm your go-to travel companion, passionate about exploring new destinations and experiencing...
Athletic Chloe
Whether you need tips on improving your game, insights on fitness and nutrition, or just want to...
Love Doctor Brad
Welcome to the heart of understanding and transformation. I am your guide on this journey to...
Advisor Smith
With years of experience guiding individuals in their education and career paths, I'm here to...
Fashionista Amy
I'm here to inspire and guide you with a touch of latest trends or advice on personal style.💅👒
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Girl's Behavior
Guy's Behavior
Flirting
Dating
Relationships
Fashion & Beauty
Health & Fitness
Marriage & Weddings
Shopping & Gifts
Technology & Internet
Break Up & Divorce
Education & Career
Entertainment & Arts
Family & Friends
Food & Beverage
Hobbies & Leisure
Other
Religion & Spirituality
Society & Politics
Sports
Travel
Trending & News
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
0Opinion
I think it’s amazing when the guy takes initiative, it shows how caring you are and if that’s how you are don’t change but if you do want more from her try to do a little less so she can reach out to you