Giving a gift to an ex good idea?

[Sanchez555]

I was wondering if it's a good idea to send a gift to my ex that's says "your loved, you're valued, your beautiful " because I seen on her tiktok that's she's hurting a lot or if you have a idea of what I should send lmk but if it's a good idea

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1 mo

It's been nearly a year since we broke up

[Oliverlogan263]

I wouldn't recommend sending your ex a gift man. Here's why:

- You guys broke up for a reason, so reaching out now might confuse things or seem like you're trying to get back together. Even with good intentions, it could send mixed signals.

- Seeing the gift might actually make her feel worse if she's still getting over you. It could set her healing process back by stirring up old feelings.

- She's your ex now. As harsh as it sounds, how she's feeling and dealing with the breakup isn't really your concern anymore. Getting involved could complicate things unnecessarily.

- Posting about being hurt publicly on TikTok sounds like she wants attention and support from her friends/followers - not from you specifically.

I know you probably still care about her and just want to make her feel better. But the clean break is usually best after a breakup. Give both of you space to move on fully without unnecessary contact prolonging things.

Maybe just leave a supportive comment on her TikTok if you want. But I wouldn't send an actual gift. It's best to leave the past in the past, you know? On to greener pastures, dude!

[NathanDavis]

why did you two broke up...

was she a grammar nazi?

[Sanchez555]

I exposed her

[NathanDavis]

[Zoeysiren]

Giving a gift to an ex can send mixed signals and potentially complicate things. It's important to consider the intentions behind the gift and whether it aligns with moving on and respecting boundaries. In most cases, it's best to focus on closure and moving forward without revisiting past romantic gestures.

[Sanchez555]

What if it was Anonymous or still?

[JayBones2469]

I always do what I want. If I wanted to send someone a gift because they were down then I would do so. How she receives it is up to her.

[slatyb]

That depends on what happened when you broke up.

[Sanchez555]

I exposed her

[slatyb]

Sounds very ugly. Don't bother her.