Was seeing this guy and left some stuff at his house. He called things off about two months ago and has been super dry and cold with me since then. I told him I’d like to pick up my things and he would reply with one word answers - basically he had been dodging me when I’d ask to pick up my stuff, and when he would finally reply, he’d be super vague about when I could come pick them up, and would be super dry as well. I told him I won’t feel comfortable picking my stuff up if he keeps acting super disrespectful, and to that he simply replied with “ok”. I asked him if he could just ship me my stuff instead, and I’d pay him for the shipping- he refused and said “come get your shit or not”. I basically acted crazy after that and spammed him with messages, and he ended up blocking me everywhere. I don’t know what to think anymore. I guess I’ll never get my stuff back. This isn’t the full story cause it’s a long one, but he had been dodging me for a while about me picking my stuff up- he’d tell me to come, but when I’d tell him he’s being rude about it, he’d start dodging me again. I tried several times asking him to ship them to me, and he’d tell me to instead come pick it up on a given day, even when I’d offer to pay for the shipping. It’s like the only option he gave me was to have him be rude to me, while I stupidly drive myself to his house to pick up my own stuff, all while being disrespected by him.
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Am I wrong for asking him to ship me my stuff?
