Men: Should I try to talk to him when I return his stuff?

[ChildofVenusxox]

This guy I was seeing told me he didn't want to date even though he thought he did. And that he's too busy with work and doesn't have time for anyone. (he told me this once before and yet he still saw me again and we had sex). So a few days ago I told him I accidentally took his boxers. And he told me he had time and that I could return them that day or if not it's not a problem. So I told him I would bring them this Saturday.

When I see him I want to apologize to him for the things I said to him via text. I told him he was lying about being too busy and that he just didn't want to see me. But I don't know if he'll even talk to me I was thinking I'd ask him if I could use the bathroom afterward I would apologize.

I am asking men for their advice if you aren't a man please don't comment.

[DannyUk2017]

By the look of it, sounds like he just wants NSA, just on and off sex... Funny how some have and just PLAY, and some want so desperate but CAN'T have... But You're not ready to let it go, While He is not to bothered about being with you or not, so i think is better to just let it go. I wouldn't even mention his boxers, i would've just throw them away... but at the end of the day its ur choice.
Ithink u just hoping to "repair" whatever damage is done" but i don't think is worth it, unless he REALLY cares for the times has been with you 🤷‍♂️.

[bigmatt98]

Best thing you can do is apologize but if he’s not up for it don’t push the issue it will just make him upset with you. Don’t want to get into another argument by trying to apologize for an argument. You can drop subtle hints about what you want but keep in mind he did tell you he was busy with work.

[DeltaRecon]

Tell him you’re sorry for texting him the way you did. Tell him you just want a relationship with him. It’s possible he feels to much stress dealing with work and doesn’t want more stress from a relationship. Maybe he feels you are being too needy and that’s too much for him also. Maybe he wants to be friends with benefits right now and that’s it. Don’t have sex unless it’s something you want to fill for yourself.

[ChildofVenusxox]

Too needy? No he doesn't know how to communicate, and he lies about things instead of just being honest. I'm calling him today since he won't respond when I text him.

I want to know why he pretended to like me instead of just saying all he wanted was sex. And when I texted him asking he didn't respond. So now I'm going to call he's full of it and is basically just ignoring me.

[boggboss]

Talk about what if he dont feel he is in the position to date how will talking fix that

[ChildofVenusxox]

I'm saying that I want to apologize to him for the things I texted him I still want us to be friends.

[boggboss]

Then apologies when u see him

[Kuroz090]

Yeah sure. Go for it.

[ChildofVenusxox]

I'm not really sure what to say though.

[Kuroz090]

Just say I'm sorry for saying those things to you. Get to the point. That's all.