So long story short. he broke up with me because he wasn't sure I was the one and was unhappy in our relationship for some time before the break up. A month went on with very little contact. I did break and call him and tell him that I missed him tho.
It has been about three weeks since we have spoken. he sent me a text asking how I was doing about two and a half weeks ago. I never responded...
I just remembered that he has a few of my things, not cheap stuff.
i sent him an email to arrange when I can get those things back from him... I also gave him the option of dropping it off at my sisters place.
So if he is coming to my place to drop if off is that considered a good sign? What can I say to him? yes, a small part of me wants him back but am unsure how to go about it...
Any advice on this would help thanks.
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hey I totally understand what you mean, becausei have been through a similar thing myself to be honest. I wouldn't see this as a sign of reconciliation but maybe a sign of that he wants to be friends and no hard feelings between you both. ad as for saying something dnt be a b***h with him just be civil and friendly towards him, maybe talk about still being friends, and hope that he's ok after everthing although it will be hard to because of memories together ect take it from someone who understands your situation it will hurt...but you have to be strong whilst he's there...an you just never know once he has his head sorted he might realise that he loves you and might want to try again but firsty find your own closure (consider doing what stercor said) then once you have found that you will finally realise wht you really want, breakups are hard and hearts do get broken but there is always someone out there who will just remend it...but if yu don't want think about that yet just remember IF YOU LOVE A BIRD THEN LET IT GO...IF IT COMES BACK TO YOU THEN YOU KNOW ITSA KEEPER! sorry its sooo long but I hope it helps xxxx good luck0