He wants to show me his apartment?

[Anonymous]

Awhile back I told my best guy friend that I like him as more than a friend... I haven't seen him since.. but have had decently normally conversations on chat and via text. Recently he said that I need to come over and see his new apartment. I am really worried that this might not be a good idea and that I'd be waling into a really awkward situation But I do miss hanging out with him... I don't know I am really confused

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I've been alone with him before just never at his place. I've gone to like the park with him and out in general with him.

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I honestly don't know what makes me so uneasy about going over and seeing it. Maybe I have watched too much TV. I just don't know, but I have a lot of anxiety about it.

[jacquesvol]

A best friend but you don't have enough confidence in him to be alone with him? I've been alone with many girls in their apartments or in mine and only the things they wanted happened: some times a lot, most of the times nothing at all and everybody was pleased.

If he's a real good friend, no need too worry. If things would get awkward unexpectedly, yell as hard as you can and quit.

[jacquesvol]

Update:

-Do you consider it as symbolic degree in a relationship, a step further you're not ready to take yet? ( changing a best friend into a boyfriend?)

-Are you not certain you're able to resist his charms?

-Are you afraid of some kind of date rape?

[Asker]

Idk it is quite possibly the first two... and I don't know maybe some subconscious part of me is thinking the third

[beans]

So, let's get this straight, he's your best guy friend, and you're afraid that he's going to rape you? You watch too much tv...

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I sense he'd like to see how comfortable you are with getting close when you're alone together.