This girl keeps messaging me?

[Simonsay11111]

So me and my ex have been dating on and off for 4 years I love this girl and I know she loves me. Every-time I try to end it she gets upset because of the religion differences she told me she can make it work and I can’t just seen how it will work. With different cultures and religion but she said she will make it work. This girl has been there for me throughout everything..

yesterday I tried to end it I told her I was busy she rang me so many times wanting to see me one more time before we end things I was so angry because I told her I was busy and she kept on trying still. When I got to see her she was telling me how much she loves me and she will make it work because nothing is easy in life you have to work for it. She told me I haven’t there for her much but her love for me has made her stay. I do agree I haven’t been there for her as much since her mother was diagnosed with cancer but she still stayed with me. She used to ring me all the time saying why do you not call me or message me truth it I’ve just been in my head about this whole situation regarding the religion differences. I do love her with my whole heart and I don’t even need to question her love for me. I just don’t know what to do in this situation we are currently not together and I know I won't across another woman like her. Can anyone help me out

[PeachyPie93]

Okay so if you wanted to marry her, you would have to convert since you are the guy. The man in the family has to be Muslim since they lead the family. Also they tend to push their beliefs onto you even if you don't want them. It defo could work but you would have to see if you get along with her family and you have to think about do you want your children to be Muslim because all Muslims have to make their kids Muslim. Plus at celebrations and events men and woman are always segregated, which is annoying! If you have boys it is fine but if you have girls, not so much, since it seems boys can do anything in life, even marry Christian's and stay out late but the girls, can't go out alone, can't have male friends and have to marry a Muslim man and always be covered.
I personally wouldn't recommend doing it, but if you don't want to marry her I suggest just saying "I am breaking up" and then just block her everywhere. It will hurt since there is love between you two but love doesn't hold a relationship together for the long haul, especially if you don't want to have to change yourself, it will not work out.

[SueShe]

Given that you have 2 religions that are at the total opposite spectrum of compatibility, you will just have to make her clear that your relationship will never work.

I don't see you changing from Christianism to become a Muslim or her relinquishing her religion to embrace Christianism.

For her, as a woman, that would be considered a betrayal and depending where she lives, she probably would be stoned or burned with acid. Her life would be at risk.

Your best option is to change your phone number and not to accept and further phone calls because by constantly accepting those calls, you can never have a closure from it.

You may love her and your love is reciprocated but religion, once again, separates people.

[Simonsay11111]

No it does not her religion does not separate people at all. It’s a beautiful religion and that would never happen to her. Her family are supportive and I am currently looking into the religion myself and I am thinking of converting

[molonski2]

Gee bro , if she is even a half serious muslin and you are Christian its going to be very difficult , except maybe the fact that you could have multiple wives , you'd have to virtually create a contract.

[Simonsay11111]

The thing is she isn’t as religious and nor am I well not as much. I just want to get married with gods blessing. No Multiple wife’s bro only her

You see my problem bro head fuck 😂

[molonski2]

Well Simon , you really need to ditch the whole religion thing bro.. sit with her an form a " heads of agreement " that works , and both sign.. How's that? Just for the record I'd also be completely fcked with2 or more wifes man

[Yannae]

Block the number. Change your number. Silent mode. Throw the phone in a river. Many options, but I would go with option one or two.

[Anonymous]

you're kind rude. you are saying that you can't see how this relationship will work and yet keep breaking up and getting back together with her. if you think it won't work because of this, THEN STOP GETTING BACK WITH HER. you are hurting her even more. jesus. i hope she wakes up one day and see what she's worth and finds another guy. you don't get to do this with someone and expect it to be okay and not traumatize her in the future.

[strateguy632]

she is "baiting you" to join her religion so block her

[Iron_Man]

What’s her religion?

[Simonsay11111]

Muslim and I am Christian

[Iron_Man]

That won’t work at all ever what if you have kids, that’s not gonna work unless she converts for real to Christianity

[Simonsay11111]

She said she’s seen it work and she will make it work and if the kids want to be Christian then they can it’s their choice she’s not forcing anyone

[Iron_Man]

OK because that will be awful weird on Christmas Eve and Easter. That’s a start.

[Simonsay11111]

But she said she will compromise? She’s literally said she’s down for whatever I just don’t know what to do I don’t want to let her go as she’s always been there for me and I know she loves me and I love her too

[Iron_Man]

Date her let’s see what happens. Maybe she’ll convert later.

[Simonsay11111]

She said she won’t convert but she’s willing to compromise

[Iron_Man]

That’s up to you. You’ll have to really think about this. Pray about it.

[Simonsay11111]

I’ve been thinking about it brother I’m just thinking how’s it going to work and even my family too. Not many good women left these days. When she was ringing me I was telling her I’m starting to hate her because she’s not listening but she said all she wants to do is show me she loves me so it’s kind of a hard situation

[Iron_Man]

Date the girl see how you work out and get along then make your decision later

[Simonsay11111]

I really get along with her but the thing is she’s saying to me she can make it work but I’ve made my decision I can’t be with her but I love her so it’s hard. She has said to me yesterday we haven’t even tried we haven’t even given it ago so how do I know it will work what do you think about this?

[Iron_Man]

if you want peace of mind, you can give it a try, but you sound like you’ve already made up your mind

[Simonsay11111]

Yeah I kind of have if I’m honest. But I know I won’t meet anyone like her again in my life so I guess I will have to live with that decision

[Iron_Man]

OK my friend very well. I wish you the best of luck.

[In_Trance]

Stop interacting with your ex

[Simonsay11111]

I love her so