How to cope with an ex having a baby?

[Anonymous]

Recently, I saw my ex is having a baby. This is nothing new as we been separated for a while and she’s been with this guy for a bit and I have a girlfriend myself. I’m not quite sure why seeing she’s having a baby put me in a weird space. It made me think of the memories with her as a friend and as a relationship. I don’t really want her back either but just weird to see also from the aspect we are moved on and growing up too. Has this happened to anyone if so how did you cope with the feelings after?

[Staximus]

If it's not your baby and you didn't want her back then why are even worried about it? Didn't start going down the mental rabbit hole in your head of "what ifs" and getting nostalgic, like "what if we stayed together", "what if that was my kid", and all that stuff. It's over, let it be. Don't start dragging yourself through the mud.

[strateguy632]

by blocking the ex

[Agape93]

You mind your own business

[dudeinohio]

I wouldn't care at all.

[In_Trance]

Stop paying attention to your ex

[Anonymous]

Yeah that’s tough