I dated this guy for 5 years. OF course we talked about marriage and having kids... We lived together and then We broke up 4 years ago. We still remain in contact. We talk every once in a while. He is dating someone now and so am i. Just back in december he called and wished me happy holidays and I said the same. I found out on facebook through his sister that he's having a baby. I called and texted to congratulate him and he has completely ignored me. What's the deal? I'm genuinely happy for him and his gf...He normally always always calls me back or texts me right away? Why would he be avoiding me? A while ago I had a pregnancy scare with my boyfriend and I talked to my ex about it. He flipped he said he never ever wanted to know if I got pregnant, He asked me to refrain from touching any subject that involved marriage or kids in my life. So I dontknow why he would be avoiding me?
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I can relate to your situation. The on and off long term relationship that broke up it seems...eons ago. Yet the feelings linger on and on. I would liken the feeling to what it must be like to have an Ex wife (or husband).
He likely does not want to be reminded of what he could have had with you. He wants to focus on his current GF. His current Girlfriend could be the jealous posessive type and insist that he not talk to you...etc...etc...etc.
Just give him time. Odds are given your history he will be back in contact at some point.1