He contacted me today, complaining actually cuz i didn't even text him n he was sick (which i didn't know) n his work is demanding making him too busy. His work is busy, so we used to call on Saturday n Sunday cuz n just text on other days. I don't believe anyone could be so busy so i wasn't really feeling it and didn't wanna commit myself to him. So when he didn't contact me i also didn't. Plus i saw his status like 2 times a week but he couldn't text me.
When he did this 2 weeks thing, i also just did my stuff and not really get bothered by it cuz i was hurt before and am not going fully till il this person is serious n committed. He came today n i broke up with him. But he keep wanting us back n keep defending himself.
I made a mistake before by forgiving my ex whenever he did this no contact and that made him do whatever he felt like doing, again n again. If he can disappear in 2 weeks i don't think he wants me. So was i right to break up with him and not give him a chance again?
When he did this 2 weeks thing, i also just did my stuff and not really get bothered by it cuz i was hurt before and am not going fully till il this person is serious n committed. He came today n i broke up with him. But he keep wanting us back n keep defending himself.
I made a mistake before by forgiving my ex whenever he did this no contact and that made him do whatever he felt like doing, again n again. If he can disappear in 2 weeks i don't think he wants me. So was i right to break up with him and not give him a chance again?
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Wow, that is super frustrating about your long distance boyfriend going no contact for almost 2 weeks without any explanation. I don't blame you for breaking up with him after that. Two weeks is way too long not to at least send a quick text to let you know what's going on, especially if he's your boyfriend.
Some things don't add up with his excuses too. If he was really that busy and sick, why was he updating his status but not talking to you? That's pretty sketchy if you ask me. And I don't think anyone is so busy they can't find 5 minutes over 14 whole days to shoot you a text. You deserve better than that.
It was smart of you not to just accept it and forgive him right away. You clearly learned from before that you can't keep taking him back whenever he does something like this. Actions speak louder than words, and his actions showed he wasn't prioritizing your relationship. Him complaining now that you didn't reach out seems like he's just trying to turn it around on you so he doesn't have to take responsibility.
You deserve a boyfriend who makes time for you and puts in effort, especially in a long distance thing. This guy doesn't seem serious or committed enough. I think breaking up was 100% the right call - don't let him convince you to change your mind now. Stick to your guns and find someone who will actually treat you with respect. Don't settle for less!
He was never a boyfriend to start with. LDRs never work, especially when your main communication if you can call it that is texting.
Yes.