Haven’t seen my Long distance boyfriend in over a year what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Haven’t seen my Long distance boyfriend in over a year what should I do? every time I made plans to want to see him and excuse comes up or something happens, it’s like he doesn’t care or it’s not a big deal that he hasn’t seen me. One part of me just wants to throw in the towel and just be done and the other part of me just doesn’t wanna give up.

[Anonymous]

Seeing each other as many times as humanly possible in an LDR should always be priority #1. It's not real without time together in person. This one probably wants it to be strictly long distance for some reason and it's never going to advance the relationship. You're either stuck like this indefinitely or you throw in the towel and get yourself a local relationship that's real.

[KateCrombie]

Talk to him about what’s bothering him… why he doesn’t wanna meet

[Asker]

Done that a million times and it turns into an argument lol

[KateCrombie]

maybe he's hiding something

[ohsheeT]

When you start talking to someone on line it can be great because you might not feel a Physical touch you feel a warm, spiritual energy touch that is. Hot and can be beautiful and intense

In most case's you become closer be cause you feel it deeper. But if he can't be there fir you in all ways then your just wasting your time

[Anonymous]

If I truly loved a girl I was dating, there is no way I would go an entire year without seeing her. I would be more than willing to travel continents if I had too. A crush or something like that has lasted that long for me, but I don't think I could last that long while in an active relationship.

[slatyb]

You should stop wasting your time and meet someone local.

[seeyounexttuesday]

why are you wasting your fertile years on this?

[Ironic_Method]

Effort and actions don't lie.

[DawnB]

Is he still your boyfriend?

[Asker]

Yes he is.

[wkhan_87]

That's why LDR is hurtful.

[AndrésC64]

You don't have a boyfriend.

[Glamourous_Stacey]

Do a tarot reading.