Should I finally move on?

Question

My boyfriend was being very busy recently and i was craving his attention and time (though we used to talk but he used to tell me that he will be back in 1 hour and will take 4 hours) so yesterday i confronted him to give me the time that he uses to scroll reels and use ig which was almost 2-3 hours everyday upon which he got very furious because he was already upset due to some reason and yelled at me that i can't let him stay at peace even when he is so tired and after some argument he told me to breakup with him upon which i said okay but delete all my pictures first (so he don't misuse any he said he would do it tomorrow but i insisted of doing it right away that made him even more angry and he said he never wants to see my face or hear my voice... that's how we broke up.. so i'm bit confused was it my fault should i have given him time as he was so stressed out from work?

Lowly_Grump · Accepted Answer

This fella sounds like he has the attention span of a goldfish on a sugar rush! Good gravy, the way he reacted! Getting furious and yelling at you like a tantrum-throwing toddler in a toy store? Sheesh, what a sour-faced banana split! He should be ashamed of himself, acting all high and mighty, when he's really just a grumpy garbage can with legs.

Breakups are never easy, but sometimes they're necessary, especially when you're dealing with someone who has the emotional maturity of a spoiled egg. This dude sounds like he couldn't handle a simple request without turning into a raging volcano of nonsense.

So, my advice? Move on, move on like a pigeon with a mission! You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and not act like a grumpy gumball machine that's all out of gum. Someone who will cherish your time together and not leave you feeling like a lonely pickle in a jar of disappointment.

So, chin up, buttercup! Go out there and find yourself a real partner, one who won't make you feel like a sad sack of potatoes. You're worth more than that, you dazzling dumpling!

As for your ex, well, he can go jump in a lake of sour milk!

ChicoFromThe305 · Accepted Answer

You should move on, I think that he treated you pretty poorly when confronting him, I think that an issue in a lot of relationships is that people don't like to communicate and I think that the fact that you tried to do so was good and if that's how he feels about you then maybe it's best to part ways.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

1. "Craving"? You sound like you're too needy, which is something to work on. Guys don't want the stress of a needy girlfriend (and same for women not wanting a needy boyfriend).

2. "He never wants to see my face or hear my voice" sounds like you have no choice but to move on, so why are you asking the question?