Hi. So there’s this woman [34 F] that I [31 M] have been talking to at work the past month. Yes I know the whole don’t shit where you eat etc. We work in different departments and barely see each other during the day. We really hit it off and became close pretty quickly. Texting and going for walks on lunch break.
We both admitted we liked each other. She’ll send me a love song a couple times a week. Guess that’s her best way of expressing her feelings for me. Some of the songs are quite intimate. But the last 2 times I asked her if she wanted to do something together, she says I’ll let you know. Then nothing happens and tells me she got busy over the weekend. She’s even told me she wants to go on a date with me but nothing ever materializes.
Today at work we got off at noon and asked her if she wanted to go do something. She said she was thinking about going for a walk before picking up her niece from school. I said would you want to go and she said she’s going to eat first and she’ll let me know. Well.. that was 3 hours ago. Heard nothing.
2 weeks ago she was all flirty with me and lately the past week she’s been kinda cold towards me. Like yesterday she sent me the song, “Hyptonic” by Zella Day. Which as you know is a very sexual song. I don’t understand her and why she acts got a cold with me. Any advice would be great.
