Is this a break up or what? (long distance)?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend or ex maybe started acting weird after her birthday which was long distance for us because when met when we were in college and she had to move back home for a gap year to get ready for professional school. I tried to send stuff in the mail for her birthday and even before that. I made a good effort and so did she after 3 months in and the communication dipped. She works a lot now that she’s at home because she isn’t wealthy (6 days a week all day) and she’s also dealing with a lot of mental things like her dad getting into trouble and it’s a small city, so it’s talk of the town, she hasn’t even begun the admission process for law and is trying to work hella. I confronted her because of the lack of communication once and she admitted she was wrong but after 6 days another time of it being spotty and her not calling I asked if she was done and blew up at me and was mad. I realized I wasn’t in the wrong and told her my side days later. She said we aren’t as close as before and that distance is so hard on her. And later on to add she said that me doing medicine and her doing law might not work because they are both time consuming. But then she doesn’t want to really end the relationship, says she still loves me, still wants me, it’s just distance. She keeps taking space and recently I’ve been giving it to her and working on myself. Why would she introduce me to her family who is already prejudice in some parts, make talk about planning trips, introduce long distance and visiting if she was gonna switch up like this and treat me like this. Now her and her sister kinda stalk my social media and she’s a bit mad at me for the following screenshot

[CuriousHubby]

She is friend zoning you or keeping you around for a free boyfriend excuse!

Intest dropped after 3 months! Ouch she is busy with her new life and either does not want a boyfriend now. So texting you to have one is what she wants. That or she met someone and is keeping you as free loving attention!

Really she wants someone there and your texts are not good enough. It happens a lot when love goes long distance... It dies from no physical touch or a loss at closeness.

Your not her boyfriend your her ooo I have a boyfriend so maybe i don't need to date. Just work and drama.

She will instantly forget about you if she gets a crush!