Am I crazy to look back at our text messages to get a better understanding of what went wrong?

[Anonymous]

I've been looking back at our text messages and realize the major issues:

-He was extremely tired a lot of the times from working a lot and it was hard to respond at times. I should have respected that but I didn't and I'm so sorry.

-Not being confident in myself. Assuring me all the time had to become exhausting.

-I broke my promise to check in with how he was feeling more often. I said I would do that and I dropped the ball on that one especially towards the end.

-I pushed a lot of things like him being more romantic and I'm sorry for that too.

[Anonymous]

No that’s not crazy. Sometimes understanding what went wrong hella is make peace with the situation so you can close that door and move on.

[Opinion Owner]

**helps make peace**. Don’t know where hella came from lol

[Asker]

It's okay lol and thank you. It did help a lot.

[Nikki1989]

[rosemilk]

i think that's called growth and learning from the situation. i'd say that was pretty smart and mature of you. now that you're aware, you can start to change things for when you get in a new relationship in the future and try not to make the same mistakes

[Asker]

Thank you. I think so too.

[Enginn]

No. If you were crazy you wouldn't even care

[Asker]

Oh ok.