Why would dumper read our old text conversations?

[Anonymous]

He spends some days10 mins during the day reading our old texts especially at nights. What does it mean? He’s not texting me though and also he’s the dumper.

[FallonSamuels]

How do you know for sure that he’s reading your old text messages since you are saying he doesn’t text you?

[Asker]

Because he comes online once a day and then spends 10 minutes on whatsapp. Usually if people chat with a person the would come online through out the day often.

[Asker]

Also he told me once before that he uses whatsapp rarely. I think I was the only person that he chatted there regularly. Also spending 10mins consecutively on whatsapp is quite long

[FallonSamuels]

He could be doing anything during the 10 minutes period. Viewing people’s statuses, on a video call with someone or chatting to someone. It doesn’t mean he’s going through your old chats with him. Maybe he used WhatsApp often now. You should be asking yourself why you’re still keeping tabs on him. It’s not healthy and if you’re trying to move on it’s just going to slow down the inevitable

[FallonSamuels]

Maybe he uses WhatsApp often now*

[Asker]

I don’t know 100% that he’s reading our old chats, i just suspect that…

[FallonSamuels]

Oh no sweetheart. You’ll drive yourself crazy by suspecting. Please don’t do this to yourself. Try as much as you can to not keep tabs on him. Stalking and keeping tabs on him will just make you restless. If he wants you back in his life, he’ll reach out. In the meantime; be kind to yourself and try distracting yourself from him

[FilmGuy93]

He's just reflecting on what happened.

[Asker]

Why though?

[FilmGuy93]

Obviously the situation was negative enough for him to break up with you. I’m sure a lot of it is just ruminating.

[Anonymous]

He probably regrets dumping you.

[Asker]

Why do you think so? He hasn’t reached out to me though…

[Opinion Owner]

Because he keeps reading your old text. But why not ask him?

[Asker]

he told me once before that he uses whatsapp rarely. I think I was the only person that he chatted there regularly. he comes online once a day and then spends 10 minutes on whatsapp. Usually if people chat with a person the would come online through out the day often. That’s why I suspect that he reada our old conversations. Also spending 10mins consecutively on whatsapp is quite long