My first ex had a hard time moving on from me and he would repetitively report my new bf’s business social media account. My boyfriend also has a fair share of crazy exes, to the point where one of his exes would sneakily take pictures of him and post them online… I wouldn’t call these “crazy” but unhinged behavior for sure
Yes any chance she got to do me harm in one way or the other she was doing it I think she was the head of the crazies exes LOL... And this went on for years until one day I got a phone call from her. And she told me that she was getting married.
I think I fell to my knees and thank God over and over and over...
She asked me if I wanted to talk to him and I said no I'm good I just wanted to hang up the phone and say yes thank you God
But she insisted that we talk I said no I could hear her ask him he said no and next thing I know he's on the phone and I hear hello
I said hey congratulations and I wanted to tell him so bad don't do it don't do it but I couldn't find it in my heart I was going to be free LOL.
I said I don't know why she wanted us to talk but congratulations and yeah congratulations.
And then I said well bro you don't know how happy I am right now if I was gay I would give you a fucking blowjob that's how happy I am and we both started laughing and of course you can hear her what are you guys laughing about is she took the phone from him ask me what we were laughing about.
And I told her what I just told him and she kind of giggled but I meant every word of it that's how happy I was.
She said yeah but you're not gay I said that's right that's how happy I am okay I got to go bye.
And fast forward 5 years I think he's probably waiting for that same type of phone call because she left me alone and I don't think they're doing too good I think they got divorced I'm not sure but I know he's waiting for that same type of phone call LOL
Wow glad you dodged a bullet, couldn’t say the same thing for the other guy though… I sure hope he’s doing okay lol
No I took the bullet LOL. Need any chance she had to try to destroy me she would do it she would use my kid as a pond and that was just not going to happen no more but yeah they got divorced I think are they split
And. You don't know how bad I really wanted to tell him dude I'm going to tell you right now it's not going to work but I couldn't do it I just kept saying well good luck good luck Good luck cuz I knew in that moment she was going to leave me alone and she did thank God
Yikes. I don’t understand how some people can be that crazy, it’s true that some people shouldn’t ever get into a relationship
I’m sure it happened for a reason, I bet you learned a lot from the whole thing. There’s always sunshine (your son) after the rain!
Nothing too bad. Except one of my exes tries to press me every time she sees me in public. Not exactly over it I guess.
I understand the struggle to move on from someone but it’s weird how far people would go to try to get back at their ex
She's the type that she hates the feeling that she "lost" and wants to get the last laugh. But I don't think there's anything she can do to get that feeling in this case... I'm just too good
Lol jk
Lol nice stay unbothered! That’s the best kind of revenge.
Woman hate a nonchalant guy... Trust me I know
Yes, he messaged my instagram from an anonymous account and started bullying me and calling me names.
I knew it was him because of how this “anonymous person” wrote those messages.
WHAT AN IDIOT 🥱
Lol childish! Was it a bad breakup?
Not really. I guess I just said or posted some stuff that he likely found offensive.
But really I will never know 🤷🏻♀️ cause he never spoke up.
It was kind of a silent breakup. A drifting apart type of breakup.
Oh damn… some people really are crazy 😅
I was the crazy one!!!
But also the things he was doing were making me crazy. And I wasn’t in a good stable place in my life!
Oooh what crazy thing did you do?
Sometimes a little bit of craziness is warranted if the other person is also acting up and driving you insane
Yes!! Gotta practice being unbothered to protect your peace ✨
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Thankfully not, but I guess that also is because in order for me to fall in love you'd have a nice personality to begin with.
That means you’re great at picking up someone’s true character! Me and my man on the other hand were fooled by our ex’s characters that they made up for us during the relationship, their true colors only showed up after the relationship ended OR we were just too blinded by love to see the red flags lol
@msc545 oh that’s a tough one. Dating someone with BPD is definitely not for the weak, I hope she’s getting the necessary treatment that she needed
@msc545 yep for your own well being, best to cut ties with her completely
No, never had that problem. Women from my past have contacted me after a long period of time but noting bizarre about it.
That’s a relief. Exes do sometimes still pop up every now and then but as long as they’re not bothering you it’s all good.
Nostalgia definitely plays a role, but things ended for a reason. It’s totally fine if you want to try to rekindle things because sometimes you just need some time apart to grow as a person before you get back with the person. Right person, wrong time is a thing
Yes, he trashed my apartment, screaming, yelling etc… I never want to see that person ever again
That’s criminal… I don’t understand why some people have to resort to violence
No, I only dated one crazy person and she dumped me and I never saw her again.
I’m glad you managed to escape from her craziness before it went too far
Aw :( maybe it was for the best
What made her crazy though (back when you were dating)?
She was a really sweet kid but every few weeks she would go off the rails. She drankj a lot and sometimes she would just go off on me. She bit me so hard I still have the scar. Her parents aboused her and maybe she was bipolar or something. I was trying to get her to see a shrink and she got angrey and dumoed me.
She probably has a lot of underlying trauma, I hope she’ll get the help she needs
Luckily only got one ex. Things ended pretty civilly and don't hear from them now
That’s great and very mature of the two of you. Sometimes though even tho the relationship ended on good terms, they can still act up
Yes, I had him arrested, and he did 5 years' jail. It should have been a lot more.
Damn what happened?
luckily no but I did encounter a crazy Polish girl once
Lucky you. What did she do that made her crazy?
she was convinced most people were immune to her herpes so she crossed her facecloths with my towel in teh bathroom to "prove it"
Oh wow that’s illegal
yeah it's probably assault or something
Hope you’re still herpes free
lol I am. luckily I got out of that situation fast
I have when dumped her she couldn't handle fact it was over. I be hooking up with someone she accused me cheating.
Yikes. Did she ever get the note that things were really over between the two of you eventually?
Yes with a text message threatened to call the cops.
Hope she’s not bothering you anymore
She isn’t.
Yes my last boyfriend is crazy af. He texts my boyfriend and curses at him and they tend to fight.
Crazy behavior for sure… hope he’s blocked and reported
My ex went and had more kids and disowned the one we have.
Sounds like a major a hole…
He insisted I wouldn’t let him see our child, although I invited him to horse riding lessons to watch, or to join in at the parent teacher meeting, etc.
I asked for money for school clothes and he called the police and nothing came of that but very dramatic at least.
I think he was just immature and lack any sense of responsibilities. I hope you and your kid are doing okay now xx
Yup. And her crazy, vindictive friends.
Oh no… it’s already stressful enough having to deal with a crazy ex but to string along their friends as well? Damn. What happened tho?
About what you'd expect. Lots of spying. Lots of trying to sabotage other relationships.
Thankfully I had a really good reputation with most of the people they tried pulling their antics with, so it mostly didn't impact me. I did lose a few friendships though. My ex actually recently got married. I wish the couple the best of luck, but their engagement photos do not give me the impression that she's in love with him.
So I kinda feel bad for her husband, but I don't know anything about their situation.
I guess the friend you lost weren’t really your true friends anyway 😔 Has she ever tried to sabotage your new relationships? My bf’s ex has been trying to sabotage ours and I’m getting exhausted…
I wish her husband the best of luck, I hope he doesn’t get on her bad side… or at least I hope she’s hopefully matured and changed for the better lol
Two words: Restraining order
We don’t have that where I live 🥲
Oh. Ok. Can you make a report of harassment?
I just decided to block them. My ex moved to a different county so he’s not gonna be bothering us but my man’s ex is still living on the other side of the city - let’s just hope she won’t show up anytime soon
Yes and this is why I'm staying single.
Some people can really do traumatize you from ever wanting to date again
YOU HAVE NO IDEA
Lol do tell!
Damn… some exes can do be really crazy like that
Yes, I have.
Oh no, what happened?
Blowing up my phone until whatsapp shut my account down because they thought it was s spam account
Sadistic mind games
Ghosting pretending like nothing happened
Stalking me and people I know
Getting others to follow me and people I know around
Showing up unannounced
Social media stalking
Okay that’s extra crazy and criminal. I hope you’re staying safe, if he has escalated to irl stalking then things could get really dangerous…
Yes, I always get the extra spicy ones. It was menacing and obsession. It wasn't worse than that. These experiences helped me to weed out dudes faster.
A guy was helping me with directions and I showed him my map. He then opened my phone app and called himself on it.
Boundaries much?
Blocked the number then he messaged me on WhatsApp.
Blocked that too.
No normal men like me.
I can totally relate! I was told that I was a predator magnet because I used to always attract creepy and crazy guys, that is until I started going to therapy and worked on my insecurity. I was told that these guys could smell my insecurities from a mile away even though I put up a confident front.
The world is for sure a scary place for woman… I’m glad you managed to learn something out of those experiences though. Really gotta pay attention to all of the red flags
I am really starting to call bunk on being a magnet due to our insecurities. Men are far more insecure. It's just more misogyny making women be accountable for men's shitty behaviour. Men flip on you as soon as they think you're hooked. If I was so down on my self worth, I would still be dealing with these fools. The stalking is because they were tryong to exert ci trolley out of their desperation and insecurity. Don't get gaslighted with this predator magnet. They do that to secure women and insecure women.
Omg yes. Ughh
Please do share!
She shared intimate pics of us together to get back at me
Oh she could get charged for that, that’s gross of her to do…
Yeah. I've heard it actually happens a lot.
My ex did the same thing to his ex, glad I never sent him pics or vids
Very wise 😊
Crazy wife.
Maybe she’s just crazy in love with you lol
Oh no… I hope you’re okay now and is able to find your peace. She needs to get help
cock fight! LOL
Lol please no
Nope
Lucky!
Oui Many times
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