Why doesn’t my ex want to be friends?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my ex due to incompatibility, but I still think that she is cool people and we have the same friends.

Every time I text her, she leaves me on read. Every time I try to talk to her when I see her, she is polite and courteous, but it’s not how it used to be. She also unfollowed me and removed me as a follower (and when I tried to follow her again, she didn’t accept my request).

[melnc]

It seems she wants to cut ties. It’s best to respect her space and focus on yourself instead.
Move on...

[Asker]

But we have mutual friends and we cross paths frequently…

[slatyb]

It doesn't matter. She doesn't. Stop contacting her.

[Asker]

But we have mutual friends and we cross paths frequently…

[Nikki1989]

It usually means they were never real friends to start with.