I broke up with her last week over something not even serious I apologies 5 days later and then she says this?

[MrAgent640509040147]

In your own opinion do you think she cares or just doesn't want to bother anymore?

I just need a few days. My head is all over the place at the moment. I love you also but let me just have the weekend to gather my thoughts, I just have a few things on over weekend planned with family and need to process my thoughts as my emotions are all over the place right now

Have a good weekend and maybe next week can have a chat

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn bro, that's messed up situation. I can see why you'd be all confused with how she's acting after you already apologized. Girls can be hard to figure out sometimes, just when you think you got them all figured out they hit you with something else!

I wouldn't freak out too much yet though. It seems like she's still into you deep down if she said she loves you back. And her asking for the weekend to sort her head out isn't necessarily a bad thing. When me and my girl fight, we usually both need some space first before we can talk about it properly. Emotions get all heated in the moment ya know?

My advice would be to chill this weekend like she asked. Do your own thing with the fam and let things calm down on both sides. Then next week, maybe send her a casual text, like asking how her weekend was or whatever. Don't bring up the relationship stuff yet, just try to get a normal convo going first. Then later in the week if things seem good, you could ask if she wants to meet up and actually have that talk.

Be cool and understanding when you do. Tell her how you been feeling but also listen to her side without getting defensive. Girls like when you can be open but also respect their feelings. As long as you both see you still care about each other, I bet you guys can work it out. Just don't stress too much for now - gotta play the long game sometimes ya know? It'll all work out bro, just stay positive!

[melnc]

It sounds like she needs some space to sort through her feelings. Respect her request for time and give her the weekend. It’s a positive sign that she still loves you.

[jojouzumaki]

She is now on the state of moving on at least the first step. She clarified and even give details on what she want/need. Simply grant that time she’s asking. You broke up already. It takes time to heal both of your wounds.


Take this time to contemplate with yourself.

[MrAgent640509040147]

So you think she doesn't want to be with me / love me anymore?

[jojouzumaki]

You broke up with her. Right?

Once you broke up with someone, they’ll do what’s best for themselves own. It doesn’t mean she don’t love you, it’s just not as enough as she loves herself.

[MrAgent640509040147]

Yes I broke up with her last Sunday you see she's a mum so she always says to me she has to trooper on

[jojouzumaki]

That itself should be enough for you to cut her off and she’ll do the same. It’s not gonna be easy but you have to be firm with your decision.

[MrAgent640509040147]

I said to her no problem have a good weekend- and I'll leave it at that she contacts me good if not well not meant to be thanks for your help

[Flower7]

Just do what she asks. Leave her alone for the weekend and hopefully you can talk again in a few days.

Just out of curiosity, why did you break up with her?

[MrAgent640509040147]

I said to her that the way she deals with her child was embarrassing- he spoke back to her 5 times - and then she got super defensive and I said I'm done with this

[Ariesman81]

Good for you... you stood on business. The only mistake you made was apologizing for being honest

[MrAgent640509040147]

@Ariesman81 I apoglised for hurting her feelings but not for what I said 😉

[Ariesman81]

Don't even apologize for that. Cut her off. Sounds like a power play.