Have you or would you ever get back with an ex if you left on good terms?

[Simslover92]

[DrPepper12]

Only with the caveat that she is available and it wouldn't be cheating for either of us. Yes in a heartbeat with any one of them.

[Simslover92]

Same here I think

[DrPepper12]

Isn't it great to feel and know that? 🥰

[Simslover92]

Yep it is. 😊

[Reymundo41]

100% if it was on good terms

[NathanDavis]

I'm in the best terms possible with two of my exes... since we're great friends nowadays, and that just won't change, we were romantically tied up once, but that was a long distant past now (high-school and college days) so, nor them nor I would ever trade that great friendship

with my other two exes... we're in good terms as well, and we keep in touch, we even meet from time to time but also no, it was a cycle and one completed at that, at least now and for years, that's how it's been and I think it will remain the same way

[Saramad_Hill]

Personally I cannot think of a single ex of mine I'd want to give a second chance. Each one ended for a good reason, and not all of them ended in flames. Sometimes the path parting was peacefully done.

I haven't met anyone so phenomenal that I would give them another chance. I understand that sometimes something gets in the way-- like they have to move to another state or something, but as for me... my relationships ended for good reasons. I wish them all the best, of course, but none of us were a permanent fit for each other.

[PreferNot2Say]

There's no such thing as leaving on "good terms". That's some bull💩 women created so they wouldn't have to do the mature thing and move on. It's a long the same lines as the bull💩 women when they claim that they have "guy friends". That's so they don't ever have to go without the male attention that they so deeply crave, but aren't mature enough to admit it.

[Simslover92]

I have to disagree with you on that. I think you can leave a relationship on good terms. If there's no animosity towards each other and you still communicate then I see it as ending on good terms and a possibility for getting back together in the future. But that's just me.

[PreferNot2Say]

Thanks for admitting part of the truth. Women want to claim it ended on good terms so they don't have to let go of their past with hopes of getting back together in the future. So anyone she dates after the relationship ends is doing so under false pretenses. People date with intentions of the relationship progressing and hopefully to one day get married. When in all reality the relationship is built on a lie because she has no intention of doing so. She's lying so she won't be lonely. That's pretty shitty to do to someone. Actually it's evil and selfish.

[Simslover92]

You are generalizing here. Not all women are like that. I for one am not like that. I don't plan on getting with anyone else unless I'm truly over the person which I know I'm not right now. I would never go into another relationship knowing that I still have feelings for my ex. And many women are the same way. They do not leave a relationship going into the next one with hopes of getting back with their ex. Once it's done, it's done for many and they move on with the next person. I know I'm not at a place to date anyone else so I would never put someone through what you just described. It is very selfish and deceitful making someone a rebound.

[Danny_dan92]

I’ve done it. But let’s be honest, there’s no such thing as leaving a relationship on “good terms” since someone is bound to be heartbroken. Thus it won’t be on good terms because there will be resentment

[Simslover92]

I mean that's true to a certain extent but I just mean leaving without any animosity or malice towards each other. We didn't leave with any animosity towards each other though I was left heartbroken but I don't have any resentment towards him and if given another chance, I would probably take it.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah I understand that, however that heartbreak will weigh on your heart.

You’ll remember what happened and after getting back together would think of the possibility of that happening again

[Simslover92]

That's true. I might but I may not. I know what happened was a lot because of me and I would try my best not to make the same mistakes.

[SunnyRS]

Honestly speaking, I don't think I could get back with her even we ended things on good terms.
Cause the fact remains we ended things and there is a reason for that and even if I try to get back with her that reason would always be in the back of my head stopping me from going all in into the relationship.
And if I am not giving my all to a relationship that's not far on her.

[sadstrawberry]

Lol never. They all cheated. And I blocked etc yea I understand it's a harsh move but I delete the contact so that I myself don't get drawn to texting them. Just for self emotional regulation

[BoopBoopBeep]

Sometimes life just gets in the way and you go down different paths. If life brought those paths together at the right time, sure I'd be up for giving it a shot.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I have an ex like that but no I wouldn't go back. If it didn't work then, it won't work now.

[Simslover92]

Understandable.

[bowenw]

There are a few I can think of that I would.

[Simslover92]

There's only one for me. I'm of two minds on it but I'm leaning towards I would.

[bowenw]

The last guy?

[Simslover92]

Yep the last guy.

[Simslover92]

We didn't leave on horrible terms.

[bowenw]

Best of luck

[Simslover92]

Thanks! 😊

[lightbulb27]

yes did, were married, all is well.

in general, until something changes, expect the same. some changes required.

[itsannalee]

No, I would never leave my ex if i still can see something good on him. So if I left him, there is no any good thing about him.

[LiamJHayden]

I would with the one with whom it ended because she went to Graduate School on the East Coast, but that was long ago and she might be married by now. Otherwise, no.

[Nirmroth]

In the past yes but now my opinion is that reheaded stuff doesn't taste as good as freshly cooked.

[Benedict234]

Yes, I would. Close relationships are hard to find.

[Nikki1989]

Probably not, but I always remain close friends with them.

[ProbablyClueless]

Probably not... but life is an interesting thing. Sometimes people change in good ways

[goaded]

It's been 25 years and at least 3 children between us, I think that ship has sailed!

[Ramithefitnessbear]

Yes. Because we had the same goals, drive, wanted children and basically were on the same page on everything but the time was not right in that period.

[LiamS95]

There would be a lot of factors to consider, I don't think this is a simple yes or no answer.

[12karen]

Nope, for me an ex is an ex, good terms of no, it's too much pain to endure

[12karen]

And I wouldn't like to end a relationship in good terms sorry not sorry

[Anonymous]

An ex, no. A never was, possibly. I don't give second chances.

[monkey881]

People never change. I'd move on and find someone else if I were you.

[monkey881]

However, it depends were you married or with one another for a long time? If ye were married or are still married then yes but if not then it's a hard one to call.

[Jennz6]

That really depends

[Jennz6]

@Simslover92 if we were on and off friends with benefits and decided that we would be better off getting back together?

[Simslover92]

Oh ok. Same here.

[Jennz6]

@Simslover92 🤷‍♀️

[kaucky1]

If I run into any of my exes they'll ask let's fuck

[Laura131]

No, most likely I would not

[paledreams]

Forget her would be me lol 😭😆

[exitseven]

I do t know, it. Ever happened

[BarryLiverstone]

I did before. Not again

[KittygosMeoWW]

Only god knows but I doubt it

[PeterLegg91]

Probably not , her family were very involvering

[Account]

Nope.

[msc545]

Oh hell no

[Jpie555]

Nope

[eagle1951]

never