Ever had to hide from someone in a small town , what did you do or go?

[Anonymous]

like smaller than 20,000 people , type of place that only has 1 wal mart , 1 hospital , 1 high school. how to you hide from someone you know in a place that small and not be found by them?

like what would your options even be? in a place that small. guess it depend too if you had a car or not and could drive to other nearby places to go there instead.

[melnc]

In a small town like that, good luck hiding. Honestly, if they want to find you, they probably will

[Asker]

i suppose but still seem like there'd be some options if you wanted to make it harder for them to find you.

i find here is girls i see around town and others i only see at 1 specific place like if they worked at a restaurant or such but then i don't see them anywhere else. so would appear they don't frequent the same places the others did or went to them at much different hours

[melnc]

What's making you hiding?

[Asker]

i'm not hiding but suspect someone i know is hiding from me and not sure why or how there doing this.

its hard to believe i would never see them anywhere else where but the restaurant they work at downtown

like i ran into one of her co workers at the dollar store of all places the other day

[melnc]

If they’re hiding, just let them be. Chasing someone who doesn’t want to be found can come off as desperate. It’s better to concentrate on your own business

[Asker]

i know i do worry too what happens if i do find out where there hiding in town or perhaps outside of town ( nearby ) , what if i found them at another restaurant and they like didn't even talk to me and acted like they didn't even know me , it be pretty terrible right?

but still feel there has to be somewhere they go when not at restaurant , like today it looked dead? i drove by and patio not even open so only a couple servers working , so obviously the rest are some where else doing whatever? i went to the gym for 2 hours and didn't see any of them there so can rule that one out

[Asker]

its also possible she is doing things off the grid as they say , where we live , is parks, lakes , trails etc out in the country if you drive 10 or 30 minutes outside of town

a lot of girls too tend to have quiet streets or roads they like to go jogging or walking on too

so its possible she is doing stuff in quieter places where we wouldn't see her , like taking a dog for a walk on a trail somewhere or jogging down a quiet back road

another quiet day at her work , been cold all week mon, tues and now weds with no patio open so no need for extra servers like herself so no clue what she has done all week

[purplepoppy]

Easiest way to find them is to get your mates to cover the exit roads, most small towns only have 2 or 3 at most. Now get someone to text to say you know exactly where they are and your on your way.. it's a lie but its about panicking them into fleeing town. Obviously your mates will know what he's driving and can force him off the road into a ditch. Best done at night so witnesses can't see you bury the body.

[Asker]

kind of crazy , but do wonder as our town is on a major highway if there like leaving town on off days and going somewhere else in there car? where that is

make sense if i'm not seeing her around here that she might actually have gone somewhere else on some of those off days right?

but mystery as to where she would be going and why? she has girlfriend's out of town that she meet in college but they live a long way away like more than a couple hours at least and a sister too but i have no clue where she lives but pretty sure she moved away to somewhere else? but not sure where either